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Old 06-28-09, 02:11 PM   #41
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OK, I guess...I've talked to her on the phone and she is coming over later she said to get some clothes...I'm dreading it, I never thought I would not want to see my own flesh and blood but I swear I am at that point, I love her more then anything but I'm not liking her much these days...

I've not asked for her house key yet, but I know I am going to have to, I really don't trust her and afraid she will come over when we aren't here and idk...steal stuff, I hate feeling like this!!

Thnx so much everyone for talking me thru this...I'm staying strong but is VERY hard!!
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Old 06-28-09, 04:06 PM   #42
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Hang in there TA. Can you have someone there with you for support? It might help you and I don't blame you feeling this way! Emily phoned me from Melbourne last night and screamed that she wanted to come home and look after me! Jesus I mean she didn't want to know me before and I know she loves me and she cares for her friends but I want her to start caring for herself and either be in school or get a job! I started off patiently telling her that but I ended up swearing like a trooper down the phone at the top of my voice about how could she look after me when she did $%&* all for herself??? she hung up on me!! Thankfully, she's thousands of miles away and can't come over!

I'm feeling for ya honey and I will be thinking of you today

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Old 06-28-09, 04:41 PM   #43
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Thnx Delta...I'm so sorry your dealing with troubled daughter as well!...I know what you mean about starting out patiently...I do that every time but before all is said and done I'm screaming and all around getting really pissed off...Such nonsense comes out of Sarahs mouth...I know you know what I mean!

I've got Andy here for support and the whole family is backing me up even her two brothers...It's saying something when Ben thinks someone is out of control...He is doing really well atm, very proud of him for turning his life around! My oldest son said today that he was going to hold her down and force feed her, I bet she doesn't weigh 90lbs soaking wet...

Thnx for all of your support and I will be thinking of you and yours too<3
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Old 06-28-09, 09:01 PM   #44
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It is hard, but maybe it is the right thing to do. You can't save a drowning person if they don't want to be saved, they will end up fighting it and taking you down with them. All you can do is be there when she finally realizes how she is hurting herself and all those around her and really wants help.
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Old 06-28-09, 10:01 PM   #45
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Just like you can lead a horse to water but cant make it drink sorta of saying too


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Sarahs ex-boyfriend lives across the street from me, last night I awaken to the police knocking on my door looking for Sarah and this "new guy" She had told Ex she wanted to talk then had New b/f jump him and crack him in the skull!!

She wasn't here, and I don't know if they ever found them of not...I called her cell phone and told her what she did was beyond shitty and that I didn't want to see her around here or I would call the police myself!!

I am beside myself, but trying to remain calm...there is nothing I can do, It's just all so frustrating and out of my control...
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How are things going today so far?
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