My parents were never married... but a couple of years ago my dad meet this girl and I honestly found her to be nice and interesting. They've been dating for a couple of years, and I found out they were getting married.

I told myself that I wouldn't mind if he didn't invite me to his wedding... but...

I just saw a video he posted... it was his wedding.

He never goddamn mentioned it to me or to my brother. I even ask about our grandma about it when she passed by. (I don't see them much, it would be lucky if I even saw them once a year) I also ASKED my dad about how an ethnic wedding be. Never mentioned about it.

I never hated him, never wondered why he wasnt around... I never demanded any kind of attention from him... but... was he ashamed of us? Didnt want a fucking reminder of his man-whoring ways?! Didnt want his new wife to be uncomfortable?!?!?!

I don't know. I don't want answers. I don't want to know. If he doesn't want us to be in his fucking life and so be it.

Glad to finally know how he feels about me and my brother. Just a mistake from the past, that can be forgotten.

It's also easy to forget someone that doesn't care about you.

I won't wish him the best nor wish the worse... I just don't care. I don't want him to be apart of my life or in his.

I know my brother is also sad about it... but... I just cant have this conversation with him. He hasn't said anything about it aswell... guess we're both feeling the same way... sorry bro...

Are you in a place to ask your father these questions? Even write them to him?

His EQ is obviously quite low and its not clear why he would do this, he knows though. There may be a lot behind it or absolutely nothing but selfishness. Make sure you find out before you let yourself get severely hurt by this. I hope for you that he is not as bad as he sounds.

You may not get the answers you want and hopefully you have a great mother?

I blocked him, I don't really want to talk to him, not now... maybe never.

Whatever the reason maybe... all I know I'll get angry. I've made up reasons, to defend him... and all it just made me angry. He never really was a part of my life, so maybe never knowing why will be the best option.

I don't know what answers I want ahahaha and my mom... I think she is worse in my opinion lol