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Old 02-15-18, 07:40 PM   #1
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Cut the goddamn "I am a better person than you" crap. Right now! Yes, I have fucking autism, so fucking what!? It doesn't make you better people than me. Honestly, I am getting fucking sick and tired of you non-autists putting us down like this, and making half-assed assumptions that I will be a mass murderer, that is not true at all! Just because you all have lovely families and jobs that pay well, it doesn't mean you are God. I am married and volunteer at an animal shelter, so treating like a fucking outsider is hurtful.

I have a challenge for all of you: put yourselves in my shoes for a year. Just because bad things didn't happen to you, it doesn't mean it will never happen to you. So before you start acting like total dicks, fucking think twice before you open your damn mouths about how autistic people are fucking nazis, because what you are saying is COMPLETE BULLSHIT!!

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I totally agree with you about this. I am on the spectrum (High functioning, thank goodness) and I hate it when people go "Oh, He's soooo autistic," and not even to people who have autism!!!
I don't get it. Autism is NOT a 'personality', people need to stop treating it like one!
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Unfortunately, I am having these feelings again. I can hear them now, saying I'm not allowed to get a job, buy a home, or adopt a cat due to my autism. It pisses me off to no end how many of these people are assholes.

I sometimes imagine life without autism, and it turns out to be better than I thought. No big surprise since non-autists can be cruel. Fucking bastards...
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Hi. It took me a minute to understand what incident you were reacting to. I'm sorry you feel targeted by people because of your autism. I know it's frustrating for people to invalidate your real challenges because they don't understand you. I hope you have a better day today
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There is no god. Never has been, never will be. And even if he is real, he would frown upon those who have autism. Listen, praying doesn't help, and never will help. The next person in my life to tell me otherwise, I will not be nice to them.
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You can feel that way. I am not trying to preach to you if you feel that way. I was being sincere. I am sorry you are targeted because of your disability.
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I haven't told anyone here yet, but I had a teacher in vocational school who targeted me due to my autism. She forced me to join DECA against my will, force-fed me foods I don't like that were used in projects, and almost always rushes me on anything that I work on. She even threatened to put me in a psych ward. Honestly, I am still surprised they let her keep her job.

Now that bad things did happen to me, she probably can throw a city-wide party, because I am a bad person in her eyes. I hate her, her asshole husband, and her bratty kids. I really hope bad things happen to all of them.
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Well, my marriage is almost ruined. My lack of social skills prevented me from talking to my husband. And now he is mad at me.

I wanted to be a voice actress, but I am too socially awkward from my autism to do so.
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At one point, I had a really hard time with eye contact. I also have social anxiety that comes up every now and then. I am not good with loud noises, change or yelling. I say this to say, that you are not as different as you feel, and although it feels rough, I think it can get better. I had chores to do today. I also wanted to make sure that I could give you a thoughtful response hence the delay
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Now that bad things did happen to me, she probably can throw a city-wide party, because I am a bad person in her eyes. I hate her, her asshole husband, and her bratty kids. I really hope bad things happen to all of them.
You cannot read her mind, so you don't know. I think we all have people we were not fond of in our pasts, but luckily, your teacher is in your past and not the present. You don't have to continue to let her have power over you.
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