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Old 12-12-08, 12:55 PM   #1
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Went to court yesterday with Ben,Got what we expected just alot of stuff came out at sentencing!
His g/f of the last yr. is creating all kinds of bull sh**!! Pposting on myspace about the guy that MY SON stabbed! Thank you lord the guy lived!!!
I'm just sooo pissed at the girl right now I want to rip her head off!! How dare she use MY SON for her silly little games!!!!
He got into trouble FOR her! She has just givin birth to a beautiful little girl,(not my sons) but Ben loves her like there is no tomorrow!!!Loves the baby, is sooo caring of the little girl( brings up alot of other issues for me)I am a female and I know how crazy we can be and I'm telling ya she is not right!!!Has her own daddy issues! I'm just freaking out! I know Ben wil not listen to a word I say, but I will say it to him anyway.
I don't want to lose my son to prison, he now is on 1yr probation, perhaps I'm having a rage issue right now,but the judge blamed her I blame her just don['t know how to get through to him!
I'm concerned that her behavoir will ultimatly get Ben into trouble!
I kno he has to take ownership of his actions,just doesn't need her leading him by the nose!
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Old 12-12-08, 01:27 PM   #2
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well that's nothing to post on myspace about that's for damn sure (evidence), don't know too much about this situation but if she was the catalyst that caused your son to stab the guy then it might be a problem... then again if he was just defending her it would be different. My mom worries bout me all the time kinda like this too cause i stay in trouble with the law. Sorry I couldn't be of more help.
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Old 12-12-08, 02:21 PM   #3
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TA your son has enough problems being hooked on this girl bad without his momma in his ear to make the situation for him even more stressful. Why not save your health and reduce your stress? Bite your tongue and be supportive as possible (You stand a much better chance of him breaking with her that way). When you conflict with your kid, there's more chaos and he'll just hang on to what he knows - the other chaotic woman!

PS I know this is harder than it sounds!
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It is evidence, would have posted sooner but Ben came home, didn't want him to see me!
Sorry you've been in trouble too! Gotta say my heart goes out to you and your mom!!
I believe it went beyond when he stabbed at least 7 more times, luckily 3 inch pocket knife!!
I'm just really concerned about him, I tried to talk to him while he has been home, is in the shower now, he just told me to shut up when I started asking questions about his g/f and her relationship with the babies daddy!! I just feel stuck.
Thanks for answering wc662.
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Thanks Delta, I know your right! I have to say something, then I keep my mouth shut! Can't help it I just do! It's been a strange relationship my son and I and I want him to know that I would never let him walk into the fire without telling him he was going to get burned!
He's getting out of shower now, Bye
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I know. But it sounds like you have said enough so that he does know. Leave it to him to get burned and be there with the dressings.....

thinking of you TA
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He's only 17!!! It breaks my heart!!
I know that when I was born I got my dads heart!! He is sooo kind, I swear when they made him, they broke the mold!!
It's very hard for me to diconnect.Especially when he still my child, legally! I'm sure when hes not I'll still be OCD over it! I'm beginning to think I have another disorder!
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Consider it a parental act of love. We all gotta get burned. Look at it this way TA. With you on his back all the time, hounding him, if they ever do break up, why would he turn to you for support, thinking he's going to come back to a mother with a "I told you so" attitude? No way! It's not helping him, TA.

16 yr old daughter is the same with her seedy bf. Man, I can't say how many times I've bitten my tongue over that guy! Sometimes I can't contain myself and then the gloves are off in this house and the only thing that happens is she's glued to him even harder at the hip!
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