To all the women who have married men hit on them:
There's nothing wrong with you.
There is defnitely something wrong with THEM.
These men find you attractive, which is a good thing.
These men don't have any clue who you are, what your personality or moral values are, so don't even waste time thinking there is something wrong with you. They are indescriminate. They would hit on anyone they were remotely attracted to. It it not about you. It is completely about them and their sad little methods of self medicating thru sex.
Last summer a guy at my pool told me he and his wife did threesomes, he said his wife didn't really like it but put up with it...and then he asked if I was interested in participating with he and his wife. I plainly and unabashadly said with a kind smile on my face "I'd like to have a quick chat with your wife, so I can tell her, she really needs to find a new husband". All he said was "oh, ok". He wasn't the least bit bothered by my comments....but he has never said anything to me since that time. Now he doesn't even come into the pool when I'm there, which is just fine with me.