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Old 07-01-06, 12:31 PM   #11
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I'd rather be hit on by the chubby cute guy though :)

Don't take me the wrong way. I woulld never conciously date someone who was married. I did that once but only because I didn't know. He talk about his ex wife and that explained the ring mark to me. He didn't bother to tell me he had gotten remarried. Now I ask to see divorce papers :-P
Wow you ask or for the papers now thats' funny. How would you know he didnt get remarried afterwards. And what if he was seperated
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Old 07-01-06, 01:17 PM   #12
 
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Hmmmm
If he was seperated I would wait until he filed for a divorce so I knew for sure it was over. I see the flaw in my logic though... maybe a current ID? :P
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Old 07-01-06, 01:34 PM   #13
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Well good luck with that you wil have better luck if you just stufy the way he talks about his ex and the way he answers the following question " So do you think i am the only one for you" If he waits more then 10 seconds to answer he is probably lieing and well if he takes less the 3 he is tryng to cover something up but you hae have to ask to find out what. Possible that you are only 1 of many he has on the line :twisted:
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I LOVE the 10 second-3 second rule. Think I'll remember that for the future. Thanks, Deadman. What would we do without you and your male wisdom?
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Old 07-01-06, 07:35 PM   #15
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I have played both roles in the past in my search for happiness. Oh and just so you know the 10 sec rule came out of a book on child psy. It states that if a child takes more then 10 seconds o answer a question then the odds are thet the child is trying to make up a lie to get them selfs out of trouble. If they anser in less then 3 seconds them are answering out of fear the average time for someone to think and come up with and answer is 4 to 6 secs. Anyway thats were I got the rule from I found this to be true in most sits. (Use this rule at work to see witch employee is lieing to me) works about 80 to 90 percent of the time.
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Cool - thanks for giving me the background on your 10/3 rule. You'd think I would have run across that at some point in my life.
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Old 07-01-06, 10:01 PM   #17
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If you want i belive the books name was "What to expect as your chicd grows" tell you how to deal with a troubled child focusing on the years 8 thou 18. Some of the idea thou go against what i belive I dont think children need to be "Put in the let place with a stern hand" children need to be nurtured (Spelled right??) atleast that what i believe. I dont think kids need to be treat as such at least not a a young age of 8 that is rediculous.
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agreed!
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Old 07-02-06, 03:12 PM   #19
 
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To all the women who have married men hit on them:

There's nothing wrong with you.
There is defnitely something wrong with THEM.
These men find you attractive, which is a good thing.
These men don't have any clue who you are, what your personality or moral values are, so don't even waste time thinking there is something wrong with you. They are indescriminate. They would hit on anyone they were remotely attracted to. It it not about you. It is completely about them and their sad little methods of self medicating thru sex.

Last summer a guy at my pool told me he and his wife did threesomes, he said his wife didn't really like it but put up with it...and then he asked if I was interested in participating with he and his wife. I plainly and unabashadly said with a kind smile on my face "I'd like to have a quick chat with your wife, so I can tell her, she really needs to find a new husband". All he said was "oh, ok". He wasn't the least bit bothered by my comments....but he has never said anything to me since that time. Now he doesn't even come into the pool when I'm there, which is just fine with me.
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Old 07-03-06, 10:46 AM   #20
 
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AllThings,

Hats off to you! The issues we have in our lives really boil down to choice don't they? Perhaps not as children, but as adults we can either stay in a bad situation or we can walk away. The key is finding the strength to make that choice.

Granted, it's easier said than done...but it is do-able.

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