I'm late for this posting; better late than never though.
It's a very good & strong point that this whole subject is about. We are responsible for our own actions & putting it on another; struggling person, especially a minor for that matter, is truly unfair.
Thanks for this posting Adminstrator.
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche