So, I'm new here. Please bear with me.
Me and my wife have been married for around 4 years now. We suffered a pretty bad seperation a few months that was a long time comming, after a few weeks of that, we got back together and things were never better! we still had problems, issues, but who doesnt? we were both working towards solutions.
After a month or so of being together, I had to go out of town for 12 days. I got back in for one day, and everything seemed fine. In that one day, we made love, she prepared a suprise for me, it was wonderful! after that night, I went out of town again for 4 days.
That is where things get weird. After 2 days of my 2nd trip, We were on the phone and she told me she felt she was feeling distant, probably because I was out of town. But when I got back, things only got worse. We haven't had sex in weeks, She is saying she doesn't know if she is in love with me, and she feels that I would be better off with someone else, I should leave her.
I know she feels bad because were talking about moving for here career, and she thinks I have too much going on here now to walk away. But I've told her that I made a lifelong commentment to being with her, and I intend to keep that promise. She's also stressed out because she's applying to graduate schools.
I'm scared I'm going to lose her again. We've got an appointment booked for next week with a marriage consoulor/social worker, but I have a feeling she needs more to focus on herself than our marriage. Is she just falling out of love with me? She says she knows she is down, and she'll get help if it gets bad enough, to which I respond, with her marriage falling apart, isn't that enough? She says she needs me to wait, and see what happens, she still wants to be in love with me, and be my wife...but if I need to walk she'll understand...
Sorry, that last paragraph was more therapy for me!
Thanks for reading..