First of all, I'm so sorry for your dear loss, I can relate to you. I might be older, but as a parent I have to say, when I was younger I had a girlfriend, it kindda went the same way. I don't think her parent was trying to "pin" anything on you, I just think she wanted to know if you knew. I don't know exactly what her relationship was to her parents, but as a parent, if my child did that to herself, I couldn't blame anybody, the blame would have to fall on me. I didn't look for signs or even here her, it's not your fault, believe me when I say that dear. If you need a shoulder to cry on, yell, scream, or vent, I'm here(as I'm sure I can say we all are)for you dear!
Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche