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Old 07-23-06, 10:21 PM   #1
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from the day i met her she was depressed. i tried to help her but i couldnt. then she turned suicidal she wouldnt let me help her. everyday we'd be together. friday she called me and told me that she loves me and that i mean alot to her. my dad was yelling so i couldnt talk to her long. later that night her mom called and told me she killed herself and asked me if i knew about it. now i feel like its my fault if i talked to her longer if i was with her it never wouldvd happened i could have saved her.
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Old 07-26-06, 02:07 PM   #2
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Her killing herself was NOT your fault. You were a good friend and tried to there for her as much as possible. That's what good friends do. It sounds like her mother was trying to pin some of it on you.

IT WAS NOT YOUR FAULT!!!!!

Sometimes all that we give just isn't enough. yougave all that you could. In the end it was her decision. Please try not to blame yourself. Try and remember some of the good time that you and she had together. You will always have a piece of her with you,

Please take care of yourself during you time of grief. Turn to us...WE ARE HERE FOR YOU!!! Love and prayers to you.
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First of all, I'm so sorry for your dear loss, I can relate to you. I might be older, but as a parent I have to say, when I was younger I had a girlfriend, it kindda went the same way. I don't think her parent was trying to "pin" anything on you, I just think she wanted to know if you knew. I don't know exactly what her relationship was to her parents, but as a parent, if my child did that to herself, I couldn't blame anybody, the blame would have to fall on me. I didn't look for signs or even here her, it's not your fault, believe me when I say that dear. If you need a shoulder to cry on, yell, scream, or vent, I'm here(as I'm sure I can say we all are)for you dear!

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thanks for being so supportive i will come here if i need someone.
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Anything that we can all do to get you through this very hard/trying time in your life. My prayers are with you for healing fast dear.

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thanks. im just depressed that she left me here alone.
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