Re: I NEED HELP!!!my EX GF is working for an escort service
What first popped into my head when I read your post, was does she have a pimp? If she does, there is more danger here than you realize. She may be rejecting all your attempts to help out of fear, justifiable fear. If she doesn't, then you still have a huge mountain to climb, because she seems to want to hold onto it. Now here is the worse part, she is an adult at 19. She may be depressed, full of anxiety, doing destructive stuff, but until she is a certifiable danger to herself or others, you can't do anything.
You must be careful not to let yourself be pulled in to her world because you love her. In fact, sometimes the greatest way we express love to a person hell bent on destroying themselves or their lives, is to walk away. Tough love, I think it is called. Let her know you love her but you aren't going to participate in her life if she continues this lifestyle. She may well choose the lifestyle, because she is so screwed up. But, the most important point is this: You can't save her. She has to save herself.