Do you think someone would lie he's depressed just for not going out with you?

We've been friends for some months ,I know he's using medication for some sort of mental disease ,it's not exactly depression but his meds are anti depressant.

from last month ,he started to ignore me but he said it's not just me he's ignoring everyone,cuz he doesn't feel good,he doesn't go out with me,or chats with me anymore,just some random texting and i have to initiate first.

he didn't told me about his disease,he still doesn't know i know about it.at first i thought its depression,i read all about it and tried my best to be supportive of him...but now i'm just beginning to think maybe i'm the only one he does this to..maybe he's shy of rejecting me...or doesn't like me(he says he likes me)...

I don't have access to his family nor friends but he updates his stuff on net and goes out with his friends...

what do you think?

It doesn't sound like it, from reading what you wrote, it sounds like he has issues

If you like him, try telling him , compliment him, in some way,

That's all I can answer for now, I will try and think of more

good luck

thanks for your answer,i would really appreciate any thought you guys have on this.

I don't know if anyone can tell from where you are. It sounds like something I would have the same questions about. Sometimes it is best to just be totally honest with someone. The result is that you will find closure in total rejection, find him opening up to you and accepting you more, or find perhaps some more understanding of what is really going on. You can drop it and figure timing is wrong for him, leave it in the past. You can pursue it. The choice is yours.

I really prefer if he comes clean and tell the truth but he only gets annoyed if i say he's just ignoring me.

so far ,I've decided to not to contact him anymore,he's acting very mean too...
before i was nothing but kind and affectionate to him ,but now idk...

I think when I had a similar experience minus all the online activity that is so normal now, I ended up doing the same thing. Over time my decision about that person was that they were just trying to get rid of me in an unkind way. I think it might not always be the same answer though. That was just my experience.

also one more thing that annoys me is his excuses for not answering or answering late my texts, for example he says they had some guests over so he couldn't...i mean what?..what does that suppose to mean?is he ashamed of texting in front of his guests?

or he says he's out...or he says he's not feeling well..

well up until now i blamed it all on his depression-like disease and seperate him from his disease but if i'm not sure what's going on...i start to lose my feelings for him...actually i'm kinda mad now..

that's really cruel,what they did...idk why they do it..

I mean if he's just doing it me,its really mean...i did my best to care for him,tried not to do upset him at all,i read all about depression and other stuff...although he's stubborn i accepted all....but now i feel like crap..i think he just doesn't even care at all...:(

I think this post answers the original posters question.

What Hottea is saying ( i think) is that perhaps this male has some decency.
Maybe Katy, you are not his type but he doesn't want to be unkind and just come out with it.
Maybe Katy, he knows you have cared for him and like him, which has made it more difficult for him to tell you, that you are not his type.
Maybe Katy, you are his type but he has issues that only by himself, can he work through them.

My advice would be........................ give space.
If he is interested he will come and find you...............if not..............there will always be someone who is.

I reckon its always better to chase and be chased, kinda feels equal..............but hey...thats just me!