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Old 02-19-09, 08:03 AM   #31
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I thought I found mine, he was a hot surfer dude that was kind, genuine, honest he'd been hurt in the passed, wasn't reaching his potential and I fell in love with him. I spent a year putting him first, I gave more than I should have and during one of the most difficult times of my life he left me, went back to his ex and everything I was buiding on, all my trust in men disappeared with him. I guess was a fool... I learnt that a man can't make you happy, and trying to make others happy doesn't magic away your own insecurities and fears. As cliched as it sounds, you've got to find peace within before you can find happiness outside of yourself...
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Old 02-19-09, 09:48 AM   #32
 
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I've met my mr. perfect - a few times over.

now how to fix me so I don't keep pushing them away... :(
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Old 02-19-09, 10:28 AM   #33
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You'll get there chick, we all will. Someone sent on one of those chain emails to me recently and it had a phrase in it that sort of stuck with me, it goes:

"No-one says life is gonna be easy, but it's definitely worth it"

Ok, that's the last time I get philosophical, its just a downwards spiral! lol
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You'll get there chick, we all will. Someone sent on one of those chain emails to me recently and it had a phrase in it that sort of stuck with me, it goes:

"No-one says life is gonna be easy, but it's definitely worth it"

Ok, that's the last time I get philosophical, its just a downwards spiral! lol
ahahaha....that's so not something I would buy - but i'd probably spread it like a virus lol.

I'm sure we'll get there - and hey, faith in men is a myth btw :P

i'm kidding...i know some REALLY good guys out there...it just takes meeting a few bad apples to really appreciate them so hold on to your bad experiences so it makes the good one that much better ;0)
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"If you can't find Mr. Right, settle for Mr. He'll-do-for-now." :P
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Old 02-19-09, 07:04 PM   #36
 
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I used to have such a clear cut, detailed description of my ideal mate, but now its like...blahhh...just as long as he's not an axe murderer. (Ok so its not that bad). I'm one of those girls that doesn't really know what she wants, or I do, its just that what I want changes from time to time. But I like the one I'm with now. I think I like him more each day.
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lol. You had me at "turtles." JK.

Hm, well, I like a beer now and then, so she should be able to sit at the pub round the corner for a few.

Somebody grown up.
Chill.
not to many hang ups.
Nice of course, i.e. genuine.
Not a liar.
Can make good conversation, intelligent, not too yappy though, I'd like to get a word in edgwise. NIce to be listened too.
Not self centered, selfish
not to materialistic--if she thinks of her car and clothes more than me, she can date those.
Not a high maintenance.
Thoughtful...
Not slutty, at least with nobody but me.
Trustworthy, can't emphasize that enough.
Adventureous, show me something new.

Somebody who makes me feel important and needed, not invisible.
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I think the problem with Mr Right Now's are that you end up convincing yourselves that they are the mythical 'one' and in doing so set yourself up for a huge fall! [well that's my experience anyway] As for criteria, I'd never go to the trouble of listing anything because its true, what we're looking for is based on what we need at the time and well when the right person comes along it just happens so its all bulls**** if you ask me... LOL
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I definately believe that there is more than one mr. right, and I just would like him to be half normal and realize that a relationship is give and take, not take- take-take and compliment me once or twice when I look nice or do something right. I mean I don't really think its that hard for someone to do, but it has been for me to find one who does!
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