Hi mama, I'm just getting home from grams. I had a long day today..my dad had a meeting and so I was there later then usual. Had a good day tho! Grandma seems to be in better spirits every day! Thats a big plus! She had an accident and peed her britches a little, bless her heart..she was so embarressed! I reassured her that it was not a big deal and that we will just have to get to the potty as soon as she feels the need. She has her whole life been a very independant lady and it kills a little of her soul having to have help. She is a very proud woman! So I tell her stories about my exp. during my 8 surgeries the last two years and how I had to have help changing a cholostomy bag to begin with and that I got thru it so I know that she will too! Thank God she doesn't have one of those...and I don't anymore either!!
I hope everything goes well getting your mum back home! I will keep you both in my prayers! I'm a believer but I'm also a sinner! I'm not sure that I have any pull with the big guy! LOL But I will lite a candle and say a prayer for you both! I kno how nervous you must be...I also can tell your a very strong determined woman and I have no doubt that you will do fine! I also kno that your circumstance is alot harder both physically and mentally then my situation! Do take good care of yourself!
I'm going to read a few post and then calling it a night! I'm tired..but a good kind of tired
I'll be thinking about you and your mum and hoping that you have a peaceful homecoming!
Hello Delta, I have asked Sarah if she would like to help with grandma and she is not receptive to the idea! I'd not at this point feel comfortable leaving her alone with her because I'm sure she is on Xanax and not in her right mind! She left her dog here a month ago for 1 day...well thank goodness it isn't a bby because I still have the little rascal! At this point she very literally can't even take care of her dog!! Or herself for that matter. Dad took her to a Dale Carnigie meeting tonight..its a self improvement...motivational type thing. I can't believe she went. I'm very concerned that dad is going to put $1500.00 for these classes and I'm afraid that she won't stick to it! Like everything else. I hope and I pray that I'm wrong! I want nothing more in the world then for her to get her life in order! I don't care what she does as long as gets off of the drugs! I'm afraid for her! I kno you kno what I mean!
I hope everything is going alright with your girls! I've just gotten home and haven't read any post yet.
Thank you for your concern