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Old 04-16-09, 08:31 PM   #21
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Hi mama, I'm just getting home from grams. I had a long day today..my dad had a meeting and so I was there later then usual. Had a good day tho! Grandma seems to be in better spirits every day! Thats a big plus! She had an accident and peed her britches a little, bless her heart..she was so embarressed! I reassured her that it was not a big deal and that we will just have to get to the potty as soon as she feels the need. She has her whole life been a very independant lady and it kills a little of her soul having to have help. She is a very proud woman! So I tell her stories about my exp. during my 8 surgeries the last two years and how I had to have help changing a cholostomy bag to begin with and that I got thru it so I know that she will too! Thank God she doesn't have one of those...and I don't anymore either!!

I hope everything goes well getting your mum back home! I will keep you both in my prayers! I'm a believer but I'm also a sinner! I'm not sure that I have any pull with the big guy! LOL But I will lite a candle and say a prayer for you both! I kno how nervous you must be...I also can tell your a very strong determined woman and I have no doubt that you will do fine! I also kno that your circumstance is alot harder both physically and mentally then my situation! Do take good care of yourself!
I'm going to read a few post and then calling it a night! I'm tired..but a good kind of tired I'll be thinking about you and your mum and hoping that you have a peaceful homecoming!
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Hello Delta, I have asked Sarah if she would like to help with grandma and she is not receptive to the idea! I'd not at this point feel comfortable leaving her alone with her because I'm sure she is on Xanax and not in her right mind! She left her dog here a month ago for 1 day...well thank goodness it isn't a bby because I still have the little rascal! At this point she very literally can't even take care of her dog!! Or herself for that matter. Dad took her to a Dale Carnigie meeting tonight..its a self improvement...motivational type thing. I can't believe she went. I'm very concerned that dad is going to put $1500.00 for these classes and I'm afraid that she won't stick to it! Like everything else. I hope and I pray that I'm wrong! I want nothing more in the world then for her to get her life in order! I don't care what she does as long as gets off of the drugs! I'm afraid for her! I kno you kno what I mean!
I hope everything is going alright with your girls! I've just gotten home and haven't read any post yet.
Thank you for your concern
Love Ya,
TA
((((((((((((((((((Delta&family)))))))))))))))
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Old 04-17-09, 03:50 AM   #22
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Hi TA, just thought I let you know, the homecoming went to shit....the hospital rang and said mum was drowsy and maybe they would let her go home at 2pm or even tomorrow morning....they rang dead on 2 and I said I would get mum in the morning.....I am not here to cater to the whims of the hospital...........I must admit I had a bad panic attack today that went for an hour and I feel like crap.....((((hug)))) mamabear
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Awww...mama I'm sorry! ((((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))))))
I'm getting ready to read your post, I'll talk to you there! TA
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TA are you going to Grams today?........have a good visit if you do((((((hug TA/Grams)))))))))))))
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Yes..I'm getting ready as I type :D I'll be heading out in about 30 minutes.
Thank you and I hope you get some rest! ((((((((hugs)))))))
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Sorry I missed you. Have a great day at your Grams.
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I'm at Grams now..just doctored up her big toe, she had an ingrown toe nail that the Dr. had to cut out last week.Boy is it sore!!! I soaked it and applied medicated cream and powder then redressed it. Phew...I'm glad that's done..I know it's hurting her something awful!! Must have worn her out because she is asleep in the chair!
Thought I'd take a time out and check out post!
Thank you Delta! Hope your having a nice evening! *hugs*
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yeah its getting late and I should go to bed...
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As soon as I wrote that last post I went in to check on grams and she was slumped over in chair and unresponsive. Finally after a couple of minutes she came back a little, I called dad and he is here now and has put a call into the nurse. She is breathing fine but is just out of it! Dad says she was having spells like this while at the protestant home and that it takes a while for her to come back! Scared the crap out of me!! Dads waiting here untill the nurse arrives to make sure she is ok!
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Hi TA, I just got in, check to see how things were going with you....I am sorry to hear that Grams...how is she now???? Unfortunately this is one of the scary stages of old age......They are like kids....need a nap during the day....Mum has one or two naps a day......you are right quite often having dressings changed or showering etc... can take alot out of them....sometimes they are hard to arouse as they havent finished napping........All I can say is the more you involve yourself you will settle into a routine and get to know all of her idiosyncrasies.........I pray all is well...(((((((((((hug))))))))))) mamabear
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