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Old 08-22-14, 01:20 PM   #11
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Both of you. I'd say, you both had good ideas. NSD seemed to be more along the lines of, meditation didn't work. I'd agree. You seemed to agree also on that. Too bad though, because I was hoping mediation was the answer, and I just wasn't doing it correctly. Still hoping that, actually.

As far as you SensualGirl, You know I don't judge, and I say, hell go for it. You are without doubt correct about being a loner. Trust me, not at all the way I used to be. You'd be shocked if you knew my past. I was outgoing. Just hurt so badly, that I folded. I wonder if its possible to go from loner, to outgoing again.

Hopefully, so...

But, we should support NSD here. So I'm wondering what his thought are on this
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Old 08-22-14, 03:35 PM   #12
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Yeah, I guess you are right.
And Gene you understood it right, even faked smile creates happiness because our body cant see difference between fake and honest one. But that unfortunately doesnt work for me because most of the time i am alone andi am not strong enough to weat smile long enough to work.

If i joinee support group (which i doubt that exists in my town), i would definitely be youngest one there and my problems would be seen as childish or i would just feel uncomfortable.

I know that happiness comes from inside, but i cant seem to achieve happiness coz i am lonely, and i cant seem to get friends coz i am not happy. Really feel like i am trapped.

Thank you all for support, really means a lot.
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So a friend of mine says normal people are dumbshits. So I'm leaning towards being a loner again. I don't have sex nearly enough to turn to sex to cope. And if i used sex to cope, it would just reinforce society's perception that women have casual sex for more than just pleasure, to ease some pain or something. Heck no, not I said the duck.

As for you, I think you should work on yourself more and learn to love yourself. You said you were ugly and you hate the way you look. You said you were pathetic and that your life sucked. You need to be emotionally okay before you can be a good friend. Otherwise you would be needy, like apologizing for little things all the time.
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Old 08-23-14, 03:57 AM   #14
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You are correct, but i have a rough time achieving that, i depend on others too much :(


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So a friend of mine says normal people are dumbshits. So I'm leaning towards being a loner again. I don't have sex nearly enough to turn to sex to cope. And if i used sex to cope, it would just reinforce society's perception that women have casual sex for more than just pleasure, to ease some pain or something. Heck no, not I said the duck.
Whats your opinion? You change your mind too much, coz of other people. What does SensualGirl wants, not what society wants, but what you want?
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