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Old 11-25-09, 03:43 PM   #1
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Why cant people just respect the opinion of anybody that actually wants to die?

All this shit "itl get better" "keep your chin up" is all fucken crap

If there were a surefire easy way to do it millions would

I know i would

I fucken hate lacking the bottle required
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Old 11-25-09, 06:13 PM   #2
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Why cant people just respect the opinion of anybody that actually wants to die?

All this shit "itl get better" "keep your chin up" is all fucken crap

If there were a surefire easy way to do it millions would

I know i would

I fucken hate lacking the bottle required
Normal people have a problem accepting anything that is different.
Plus when people do not understand you can't always expect them to be sympthetic. Think about people who mock others with phobias(thinking it is funny when the person is in actuality having a panic attack) or people who call gay people "fag" ect...
Plus, unless someone has had depression they wont really understand or get that "cheer up" doesn't help at all. Granted some people don't know what else to say and are doing the best they can(and for that you can't blame them, they don't know what else to say, and don't understand but may still want to help)
"Things will get better" isn't crap though, I believe it is true. I get my moments of suicidal thinking too as well, but I do believe that the future holds better things. Maybe I'm too optmistic? (no..not really lol)
Anyways point is don't expect those who have no understand to respect let alone get it. That's why we have this site, full of people who actually get it and know what it's like.
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Old 11-25-09, 09:58 PM   #3
 
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OMG, I totally feel you. I understand the realization that you no longer should be on this earth, and that youve thought it over and the answer is still the same.

Its selfish for people to say that who have never felt those feelings.

I wanted to have a party the last time I wanted to kill myself (to be honest I havent talked about this in years), with everyone coming to say goodbye, like i was a dying AIDS patient.
They threw me in the hospital.
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Old 11-25-09, 10:32 PM   #4
 
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I understand exactly what you mean. I think that's the worst thing about feeling this way- you know you should tell someone, you wait for ages until you bring up the courage to say something, and they blow it off. It's a horribly lonely feeling and you feel like they are completely dissmissing how you feel, like it isn't important, like your suffering is insignificant. People who have never felt this way are very lucky indeed.
It doesn't necessarily get better; for some people it does, for others it gets worse.. but I think, for most of us we just get numb as time widens the gap between us and whatever started these feelings of depression in the first place. So in that respect, maybe it gets easier. Even if you don't feel better, you just get used to it.
It makes me angry too when people judge those who choose to end their lives. I hate how everyone assumes that you will be leaving behind all these people who love you when in fact most depressed people feel lonely because they have no one who cares about themin the first place. If I killed myself, my parents wouldn't be their because they loved me theyd be there because I am their daughter, and thats just what youre meant to do when your daughter dies. It's an obligation. To cry. To feel bad. An obligation, not love.
I think the only thing that has stopped me from getting it over with already is the horrible knowledge that no one will be at my funeral.

You have all my love from my little room in london, though. I empathise with you.
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