I can't stand being an ugly freak so I think I might kill myself. I honestly can't imagine me ever being happy when I'm this goddamn ugly.

I want to be handsome and good-looking like all the other boys at my school. They're all so happy and everyone likes them. I want to be like them but I can't because I'm ugly and they're not. I don't think I can't live being ugly.

I don't think I can be happy, I really, really don't. And looks DO mean EVERYTHING if you EVER want to be happy (at least in my opinion).

If you think someone really ugly with a great personality will score tons of pretty women, you are a moron. Wake up and face the real world. In the real world, nobody gives a s hit about your personality. Just your looks. Everyone hates me and I hate myself. And I want to kill myself so badly.

People are shallow... it's the sad truth... but there are people who care about personality... I know I'm like that... What makes you beautiful is what's on the inside... Not the outside... If people you're around are that shallow and mean to where they make you want to kill yourself... you need to go somewhere else... Tell a family member how you feel... I know there's people that care about you, whether you see it or not...

There will always be people uglier and prettier than yourself, if it helps you to know, THERE ARE people who are uglier than you, but that doesn't mean they should kill themselves. Looks are no good, they don't really say much. I think I'm ugly all the time, especially when I compare myself to such good looking guys, but then other times I see guys that are far uglier than me, I ask myself "what does it matter anyway" we can't help how we look, but we can change our attitude and improve our self esteem.

Some of the most interesting people I've met were not good looking by normal standards but there personality was just WOW! And a lot of good looking people I met are just...Blah thats it. They are not interesting, didn't have much of a personalty but to act like everyone else around them. Some of the most meanest, shallow, boring people I met had good looks, and thats pretty much all they had, was their looks. Some people are both interesting and good looking but not everyone can be that lucky. I haven't met much people like that anyway. Unless they were interesting and had no idea that they were good looking because it wasn't important to them to "doll" themselves up.

darling, i am being completely honest with you right now.

[there is no use lying to you, i have no reason to lie to you]

i am a real person, a chick, i live in southern california, there is probably the highest concentration of image-centered people in the world, right here...


and i can say, i honestly dont give a FUCK about looks, i would rather date the ugliest person on the planet who has an amazing personality, then a hot fucking person without a personality, like the surplus of people who enhabit this half of the wonderful state i live in.
[the top half makes it amazing]


hunnie, i think you're just in the wrong place, i know i am, and a fair amount of the reason why pretty my life sucks right now, is because of where i am.

i'm just saying, lovely, that life is just a bizzarre, bizzarre trip, and you just need to put yourself where you can access it.

everything is temporary, but you can make it last forever, if you don't remove yourself from it.

just pm me, doll...

Do you think all unattractive people are worthless and unhappy and not as good as those who are considered attractive by whatever society you base physical beauty on?
In the actual real world-not the shallow drama highschool or preppie rich bitch gang-but the damn real world people DO consider personality. Take a step back and look at the whole picture. Go look at situations like Haiti or people in hospitals-do you really think they give a damn how pretty the doctor is? Or what the patient looks like?
The problem is you are basing value on physical appearance-and that will get you nowhere. According to that theory as soon as anyone hits over 40 gets wrinkles gains weight ect.. they should just kill themselves eh?
Seriously not trying to come across as a bitch but when you get down to it looks do not come first-and I've struggled with selfimage and an eating disorder so believe me I knowwhat it feels like to hate what's in the mirror. Hell,I'm crosseyed,fat,and have very bad skin
but did that matter when I overdosed and went to the ER? Hellfuckingno.
Look at the world-the real world,all over,rich and poor every country-you'll see that there are a hell of alot more things to life. Not to mention being pretty does not mean being happy. There are some gorgeous people on here and I'm pretty sure they didn't join a depression forum for the heck of it. And look at hollywood all these f--d up people with eating disorders,drug addictions,depression-hmmm not so different from all of us no? Cept they are "pretty" rich and famous-but that doesn't make them happy-not true happiness.

I'm ugly too,having a somewhat of a primate appearance because of my slightly big lips and jaw.But oddly enough some girl decided that she likes me and wants to come to my house and have sexual intercourse with me.Not that she's some beauty queen or anything but she told me that she likes intelligent dudes and she considers me one,and for some odd reason I still think that even if I have sex with her my life will still remain meaningless.People made fun of me ever since I was little so we are on the same grounds here.My advice to you is STOP WORRYING.We'll all die at one time.Whenever you feel ugly think of the sad and poor people living in Africa or some other poor country,think of their struggle with food,disease,violence and then compare them to yourself.It works for me.If you stop thinking of how you look and focus on the important things in life,then the little things take care of themselves.

You know, we are never going to be happy with ourselves. There are people who think they have it way worst, and there are others who definetly have it way worse. For example: people who were born with no legs, or who lost a leg; but this exactly kind of people, I've seen that they have gotten up and fight for their happiness.

I'm a guy, 19, and I'm pretty decent, but I wish I was a lil bit taller, I'm 5.5feet tall..... and I've been told that by chicks..But cant do none about it..Guess I have to stick with a girl who likes me the way I am.

Also a lot of times, girls get in love with guys who are not very physically attractive...I have seen that a lot of times, and it makes me feel jealous, I wish I could have the good humor they posses or w/e they got to get those girls.

i think, have been told, i'm very attractive guy. in my younger days, i sought out all the "blond bombshells" and got 'em. it took me a long time of dating women with no opinion of thier own. stylish knockouts.

but you know, i found it so fake. it's been said "beauty is in the eye", "skin deep". take it from someone who's been there. it's true!

i actually felt my good looks prevented me from finding my mrs. right for many years.

i am happilly married for 30yrs, to a heavy set italian. she has opinions of her own, has the balls to tell me i'm full of sh*t. can kick my skinny as*. i love her dearly.

as time goes on your opinion will change.

my best friend was burned in a fire at birth. he got all the good looking women he wanted. it was his attitude. he just didnt believe he was scarred. the women found him very interesting.

i firmly believe one is as pretty as they feel. no matter what they look like to others. have confidence. practice confidence. pretend your going through adolescense. just keep throwing the line out there. if your bait get stolen, and she runs, just put on more bait and keep fishing. and realize it's not you, it is they who have the problem. heckle guy, i'd go clubbin' with you anytime......

hope this helps

Bro... Im ugly just like you. Highschool for me was a pain. I was depressed as hell while I watched the girl i liked be taken by this idiot with a mental ability of a drunk rat.

Feeling ugly is messed up because unless you get a surgery, even if everybody else says "you're beautiful" or "beauty comes from the inside", you simply know that theyre full of shit. I wonder why all our friends say: "oh its the personality that matters" and then when they forget about whats going on with us they make jokes about others being ugly and how nobody would want them and so many other examples like that. I think to myself "Dude... Im sitting right next to you. What the hell!?"

But the game is a bit more than just looks. First of all youre a guy. That means as soon as you get jacked everyone will say: "wow hes so hot". Girls dont have that kind of luxury.
And the reason why you feel left behind, comparatively unattractive is becsude you're in highschool. Nobody gives a shit about money, education, or anything else that has to be achieved.
These people who only judge you by your looks truly deserve the worst.

Remember how I told you ny highschool crush was taken away by some a**hole? About three years ago, when I had just got my undergrad degree, i saw her at a bar. Was she with the dude? No. Did we talk? Yes. During our conversation i was able to mention that Im going to lawschool. You know that moment when people change the way they look at you. She did that after she found out. We did it a couple of times and I thought to myself: "nah, I can be with way better people" because thats how adult life is. Your looks are of the least of importance when you grow older.

But it sucks. I know. People like us. There are things others enjoy that we cannot ever have the luxury of experiencing. Just like a blind man who doesnt have the luxury of seeing things, we cant go to a bar or a club and get girls. I mean its doable but only if we get lucky. This is going to be a pain man. But trust me when I say, if you're willing to give up the experience of hooking up with people in house parties, clubs, and frequent one night stands, there is a lot more that you can enjoy.
We dont know what happens to us when we stop living. Nobody knows what happens to the person after they go. But i know what happens to the ones who love him. That thought alone saved my life so many times. You can die when you're old. Theres nothing to lose, live while you can.