10-23-11, 10:17 AM
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#271
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I probably could but I'm just not motivated and so so lonely. I really just waste everyone's time here, I'm not going to ever get better, it's just matter of time till I suicide.
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10-23-11, 02:22 PM
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#272
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Location: New Jersey.
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I am absolutely certain that if you find a way out of your loneliness, you will find motivation. Staying in touch with other people is necessary to stay sane. Do you have any friends that you keep in touch with online?
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10-23-11, 02:29 PM
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#273
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Join Date: Jul 2006
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Originally Posted by Sagerch
I probably could but I'm just not motivated and so so lonely. I really just waste everyone's time here, I'm not going to ever get better, it's just matter of time till I suicide.
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Sagerch,
You never are wasting anybodies time.  It's always small steps twords getting better. Nothing comes overnight, as much as we wish it could or would. I sincerely hope, that you don't think of doing that, because there's always more options avaible to us, than we may see or think of at that time(s). People here deeply care about you and truly are here to support, comfort, or just even listen. We truly want to help you work through this. I hope you'll allow us that opportunity.
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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
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10-23-11, 02:46 PM
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#274
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Do you have any friends that you keep in touch with online?
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I guess one...
I'm not a good friend so it's just crap for that person anyway.
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10-23-11, 02:53 PM
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#275
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Originally Posted by Aries
Sagerch,
You never are wasting anybodies time. It's always small steps twords getting better. Nothing comes overnight, as much as we wish it could or would. I sincerely hope, that you don't think of doing that, because there's always more options avaible to us, than we may see or think of at that time(s). People here deeply care about you and truly are here to support, comfort, or just even listen. We truly want to help you work through this. I hope you'll allow us that opportunity. |
That's very nice of you to say but I'm wasting time because I know I won't kill myself anyway.
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10-23-11, 03:03 PM
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TTL Platinum Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: On my own planet...
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No, you're truly not wasting time. You're looking for comfort and support. I personally feel, there's nothing wrong with doing that. We all seek out advice, support, comfort, and so on. It's human nature. We need to feel that people truly understand, can relate, and are willing to comfort/support us, in our time(s) of need(s), as we do for them. It's good that you wont do anything like that. It shows that you are truly willing to fight, fight to keep pushing and moving forward in your life! I truly admire that about you!
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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
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10-23-11, 03:06 PM
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#277
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It's good that you wont do anything like that. It shows that you are truly willing to fight, fight to keep pushing and moving forward in your life!
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No, I'm just scared of pain and failing.
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10-23-11, 03:18 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2006
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We all are. It what makes us human. Here's my thinking on that. I hope you don't mind me sharing it. If we never try, get hurt, are caused any pains, how do we (ourselves) become stronger? How do we learn to fight for what we believe in? No matter what it is or might be. I personally think, it's a way to build character, and grow stronger in our own person lives.
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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
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10-23-11, 03:22 PM
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#279
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Ok?
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10-23-11, 03:25 PM
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TTL Platinum Member
Join Date: Jul 2006
Location: On my own planet...
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Originally Posted by Sagerch
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All I was trying say, is that we continue to have our own fears/insecurities in our own lives. Fears of rejections, no love, no family, and so on. It's working on them, to make them "work" for us, not against us. Does that make better sense?
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Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is the voice at the end of the day that says I'll try again tomorrow. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher
Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure a difficult one. ~ Bruce Lee
That which does not kill us makes us stronger. ~ Friedrich Nietzsche
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