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well, this is not about me, but i still want to know..
if a girl can fall in love with both guys ans girls, but she doesn't find guys sexually attractive, what is she? bisexual or lesbian? or something else?

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hmm, hard question.. but i think if you wasnt sexually attracted to a guy but was sexually attracted to females, then the love for a guy would be a different kind of love... compassionate love maybe?... the kind of love you have for a friend. and so i would think the person is gay.

idk, just my thought

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yeh i first thought that she is a lesbian but she thinks she is bisexual but no one of us really know

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well, sometimes it takes a while before you figure these things out. I don't think it really matter much what you *are* as long as you feel comfortable with the person you are with. I'm sure she will find out sooner or later what feels most right to her. :) I'm glad she has such a good friend as you she can talk about this with. :)

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well she's with a guy right now, and i think it's working for them..
lol this girl is actually my ex, but yes we're friends

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Hmmm. I'd have to say bi by definition. A bisexual is someone who can feel sexual or emotional attraction to either sex. But I'm not going to define anyone for them; only they can define who they are.