This is something which really does annoy me.
My grandmother lives here and is in her mid 70's. To cut it short and just go into facts shes a smoker and for the last year or 2 has been vomiting every single day for the last 2 or 3 years.
Its at least 2 or 3 vomits per day. It always starts with coughing and then the coughing suddenly turns to gags and before you know it shes running to the sink to vomit.
At night time she sleeps with a bucket next to her bed and fills it with puke near enough every night.
She wont go to the dr which is probably because shes too scared.
I asked to dr about it who said nobody can force her to go.
I asked some family who never bother with us if they could try and make her go... They persuaded her to go but she played it down and convinced them and the dr that im overreacting and shes fine.
I know something is up as over that time shes been getting frailer which isnt a surprise with all that vomiting. Also its not normal for someone to vomit every single day.
If there is something badly wrong and it turns out to be fatal then I just won't be able to forgive her as its not just her who shes harming... My mother has parkinsons as I mentioned before and she relies on my grandmother for the intimate parts of her care. If my grandmother wasnt around (and it could of been prevented) then it means my mother will have some random stranger carer doing all that for her or worse still will be put in a care home earlier than she would otherwise.
It's horrid here as well with her vomiting every day because the vomiting happens suddenly so she could end up being sick on plates I eat off or clothes I wear. I have to use my own plates that stay in my room to avoid vomit on them