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Old 04-05-21, 09:11 PM   #1
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I guess my other 2nd Spilt personality came out from wherever he goes to and was texting my woman who the next day was calling me asking who had used my cell phone named 'Chris ' . I felt bad but happy and I told her I wanted to impregnate her & have her as belong Only to me and I had used and called by real name. Am I bad for letting my other half Chris to step into Damain's part while I don't understand how it had happened?

Because now this woman has told me That she has mental illness herself and that even if we are all misunderstood by also misunderstood people. Everyone has something different and unique with themselves. She wants to continue the sexual desires that the part Chris's side does not agree with because of the past life.
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Old 04-06-21, 08:48 PM   #2
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How often does your split personality come out? Does your partner know about it? If she doesn't maybe you could explain it to her - once she knows it could make these unfortunate situations less damaging, and she might understand that you didn't intend to say the things you did.

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I felt bad but happy and I told her I wanted to impregnate her & have her as belong Only to me and I had used and called by real name.
Sorry if I'm a little confused, but did you say this to her or was it your split personality?

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Because now this woman has told me That she has mental illness herself and that even if we are all misunderstood by also misunderstood people. Everyone has something different and unique with themselves.
It can be difficult to live with mental illness, especially when others don't understand what you are going through. Even though it's unfortunate that you both have struggles to deal with hopefully your mutual mental health issues help you to understand and support each other. And she is right - no matter what you have to deal with there is something unique inside you that you have to offer to the world. Your struggles can keep you down, but trying to cope with them can make you stronger.
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Thank you, Xerxes .

It was Damian who was saying the about how I want her "Only belong to me. and that " I thought about it. I didn't say and that you're possible material because I like someone who had been to my will. " is what I had told her and she was being kind and understanding or just does she really misunderstanding the part of what a does a person with my disorder can be handled with differently


I know she has been dealing with trust issues and I am worried if I do get closer my mind and words won't mean happiness for her and that I would hurt her heart. I told them how to care for her despite her thinking others' thoughts.

She had Bipolar type 1 & PSTD with delayed expression. which is the newest findings with what she has been a victim of being raped at a 15 yrs old and she is an adult who now became she is very cautious and was very hurt pigs who never treated her and what I don't want is my slipt parts to get in the way of her trusting me.
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I know she has been dealing with trust issues and I am worried if I do get closer my mind and words won't mean happiness for her and that I would hurt her heart.
Being honest with her is essential. What is keeping you from doing this? Is it out of fear that you will not bring happiness to one another? There are two possibilities:
1) Being open and honest will help form a deeper connection between both of you and will ultimately be beneficial for your relationship.
2) Being open and honest will reveal that you do not make one another happy, showing that the relationship cannot function.

What if 1) is true? Then fear is holding you back from a happier, better functioning relationship. Fear is holding both of you back from your full potentials.
What if 2) is true? Then the relationship cannot work. What happens if fear is keeping you from discovering this? There are relationships out there for both of you, and instead of finding those you will both be held in a relationship devoid of trust and honesty.

It doesn't matter whether 1) is true, or if 2) is true. In both cases fear is holding you back from a better life. A happier and more meaningful relationship could be waiting for you; it could be with her, or it could be with someone else. Whatever the case may be you need to act in spite of your fear. Both of you have mental health issues and a relationship that is not built on trust and honesty is bad for both of you.
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Does she know about your split personality? If not, I think you have to tell her. You've got to be honest with her
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