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Old 07-21-14, 01:41 PM   #1
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My lunch break completely sucked. The Malcolm X voice was asking me personal questions and disrespecting me repeatedly. I tried self-talk but the voice snuck in.

I feel mentally violated and raped. I'm a private person, but he says "people who have nothing to hide hide nothing." So he asks me things like "how many men have you slept with." I try to explain that regardless of how many sexual partners a woman has, she will be disrespected, if not as a slut, then as a prude. But he just ignores me when I say that. What an asshole.

Just wanted to get my feelings out.
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Old 07-21-14, 05:29 PM   #2
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Number of partners doesnt matter Sensual. All depends on lifestyle and personality.

You see, a huge problem in whole society are double standards for men and women. Each has its perks and its disadvantages, when in fact it should be equal. Men is called a stud when he is with a lot of women, a womanizer, and most people envy him, while if girl is with a lot of guys she is called slut,whore and is disrespected. And i hate that.

Also big problem with guys is that they would all like to fuck, and marry innocent (pardon my words)

You are not slut Sensual, you just have your own lifestyle, that suits you the best, and cling to that. Dont listen to that rude disrespecting voice, or to what bad people think about you. You are a good and valuable person. Advice that fell to my mind kind of syncs with lyrics of Christina Aguilera song: ,,You are beautiful no matter what they say, words cant bring you down". Maybe make that as your motto? :)
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Oh and sorry, didnt think of any motto for you, that i promised i will put my mind into, i apologize, i was busy patching my life and mind, but i will try it tomorrow once i wake up.
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My lunch break completely sucked. The Malcolm X voice was asking me personal questions and disrespecting me repeatedly. I tried self-talk but the voice snuck in.

I feel mentally violated and raped. I'm a private person, but he says "people who have nothing to hide hide nothing." So he asks me things like "how many men have you slept with." I try to explain that regardless of how many sexual partners a woman has, she will be disrespected, if not as a slut, then as a prude. But he just ignores me when I say that. What an asshole.

Just wanted to get my feelings out.
Next time tell him "sorry pal, you're not getting on the list."
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Old 07-22-14, 10:00 AM   #5
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Or, "why do you care, you are bad person and i dont want bad things in my life,i dont deserve bad stuff, only good one and you are not a good one."

Dont let the voice hurt you Sensual, you can fight it, you are strong (:
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Thanks B. Thanks NSD. Is that one of the mantras?
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I guess so. :) All positive mantras can be found in your mind, try thinking some by yourself, think of yourself as great succesful worthy, valuable, good person, and using one helpful mantra multiple times cant hurt either right? :)
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The voices got nasty a minute ago. We were talking about racism and black history. Long story short I was disrespected and cast as some bitchy, ignorant conservative (not saying conservatives are bitchy, only that this was the perception). People feel like conservatives are against black people. I have always tried to be of service to the community, but no one believes that I was ever so pollyanaish. My intentions were good. I never ONCE lectured anyone, especially not about pulling themselves up by the bootstraps. I wouldn't dare. Anyway, I was judged harshly and treated horribly. So I vow to never to talk about racism or slavery EVER again. I'm so sick of the obsession with race in this country (the US). It's an easy topic that everyone can formulate an opinion about. It's time to see past the labels.
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Old 07-22-14, 04:15 PM   #9
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I so agree, especially with your statement that women will be judge regardless. I have only had one sexual partner, I have being with my BF 8 years and I am called a prude. I do not judge my friends on their sexual relationships, so why should they judge me? I also find women can be as rude as men regarding sex. Some women will be the first one to call another sluts and such.

How are the voices now?
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Old 07-22-14, 04:20 PM   #10
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Thanks for asking! They've left for now. I've been more focused yet relaxed. I've been practicing mindfulness. I just have to not give the mind anything to grasp onto.
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