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Old 04-18-18, 07:24 AM   #1
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I feel like even if I speak, there is always a harsh response. It doesn't bother me, as I ignore it, but I don't want to get sucked into it. Can I just be silent? I feel like there will be confusion and miscommunication regardless of whether or not I speak.
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Difficult to answer into this thread..being silent will keep you away from flack,anger,critisism..harsh responses are given by harsh people who care a shit if their response hurts you or not...they are just bullies who wanna prove they have a grip on you...so my view is==will it be rewarding to remain silent?i developped a bit of an elephant skin through the years and can ignore an insult maybe,but deep down the hurt is there..if i would say it does not bother me it would be a white lie for my own benefit..ignoring is O.K as far as you do not feel hurt by being ignored yourself..so i say to the OP==yes you can be silent in your own way..confusion is in my eyes a general term which we often misjudge..a lack of communication can lead to reclusion,introvert behaviour,anxiety and even anger maybe..i am not even saying anything about alienation,distrust,jealousy,envy..try to be silent when you feel the urge to be silent...and if you have to speak try to speak the right words and you will see people will answer you in a correct way,i am often confused how to answer someone,so..a question usually gets an anwser..if we give an answer which is misunderstood or misjudged then all of us will face trouble..willing nilling...do we ask the right questions??or are we not understood sometimes?different for anyone...so remain silent and withdrawn..and feel O.K..or you can speak up and see what happens..then take your decision to be silent or not...could be a dilemma in certain situations?but you must cut that rope for yourself,sensual
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