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Old 09-26-17, 01:01 PM   #1
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I'm thinking to survive people and their drama (the saga continues) I should be a chameleon. In the past, I was too opinionated to do this. Now I don't give a crap about politics, religion, whatever. I can get along with anyone.

Maybe just blend in with whomever I'm around? Mirror them? Keep my most controversial thoughts to myself. Let my controversial soul drop. Especially drop the race stuff, which people have been saying for years.

That way, I don't have to avoid people altogether but I'm less likely to be condemned.

What do you think?
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I'd better try this too XD
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sounds like you are ahead of the curve, really a good idea as long as you don't forget who you are and who you want to be
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Thank you.
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Stumbled upon this thread...i actually saw it before but it skipped my mind at that given time to answer it...i am a good example of a chameleon attitude in the sense of adapting myself towards any situation...i can be social at a gig on saturday and be totally in loner solitude on monday..there were times i did not like the company of people,all these obligations just gave me stress and being irritable..being a chameleon suits me in that aspect that i get everything under control myself...i can be social but deep down sometimes i am avoiding contact where people easily get a grip on how i should act etc..i know some people who suffer from social avoiding personality disorder since they think being around people disturbs their wellbeing,self esteem and wayof thinking...i am not into politics,religious issues,but on the orther hand i can be with people in a social way if they discuss matters in my range of interests=philosophy,
psychology,music,travelling,discussing life issues..i am very much against injustice,be it social,racist or sexual...i felt like this for many many years...and i stick to my life principles..I can get along with anyone..but i perhaps prefer to withdraw myself but still not become a total recluse..i feel so much O.K listening to music,looking up stuff on wiki,
having a positive conversation with my gf..to the OP i say==just live your life accordingly in the direction you see it for yourself,never force yourself into a conversation which disturbs you,makes you anxious,or makes you feel insecure within yourself..remember that your inner core is holy ground...do not allow anyone inside if you suspect it could be harmful..i suppose a lot of TTL folks go trough social anxiety symptoms,they will always get my sympathy and support
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