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Old 12-08-12, 05:13 PM   #31
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Old 12-09-12, 01:59 PM   #32
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I'm feeling really bad now. Something happened today. I was being friendly with this guy I met but only friendly. I wasn't really into him but I think he thought I was. Maybe cause I asked him if we could hang out sometime. I only meant it in a friendly way though. He took it the wrong way and said he wasn't into me like that. I tried explaining but then he said it was because I just wasn't very pretty at all. He said that I was really plain looking and wore plain clothing. He said I wasn't a very attractive girl. I acted fine for him but then I cried when I got home. I feel like crap. I feel like I'm useless and ugly. I don't usually care but to be told I'm not good looking at all and not pretty... it hurts me. I know it's silly but I'm still crying. I feel so ugly.
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Old 12-09-12, 02:12 PM   #33
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Wow that guy just sounds like a jerk...like a serious jerk. I'm sorry honey people like that suck to deal with
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I was about to post something, too, but I got disconnected and lost it- it included the words 'asshole' and 'wanker.'

Seriously, Alice, I don't blame you for being upset- I sure as hell would be. But don't be upset cos there's anything wrong with you- he's just stoopid and downright mean. If you'd known that in advance you wouldn't have been so open to him, expecting him to be a normal, nice, respectful person.

You're totally fine just the way you are :=]
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Old 12-09-12, 02:20 PM   #35
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XXC - I know, I just don't understand what I'm not doing. I wear make up and I thought my clothes were pretty. Do they just not look exciting and interesting enough? Maybe it's just me. Maybe I just can't be attractive.
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Thanks Andrew, I suppose it was just him being a jerk. I still feel hurt though. Probably cause I've never felt pretty.
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Old 12-09-12, 02:23 PM   #37
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Some guys are just assholes like that. I'm sure you look fine and you seem very unique just through a keyboard! Don't take words like that from people like that to heart. I think his reaction is more descriptive of him than of you.
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I suppose so. I mean I like my own personality and other people do. I just sometimes want to feel like I'm attractive and pretty.
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Old 12-09-12, 02:29 PM   #39
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Alice,

He was definitely being a jerk. If the roles had been reversed would you have been so harsh?

Yeah, it's weird- I reckon the comments that hurt the most are things we feel insecure about in the first place. I'm not sure about feeling pretty- I'm a bit of a bloke so pretty has never been on my agenda :=]

I wonder if there's anything you can do right now to help yourself feel better? Like have a bubble bath or a facial? Sorry, I'm winging this pretty thing :=]
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Thanks, it's okay. I guess I could take a bubble bath. It's just no one has ever really told me I look good or attractive. I end up feeling plain, ugly, or just unnoticeable.
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