Originally Posted by Black Sheep
oh, same here. I assumed you had options. My bad.
I know how you feel... I've dealt with a lot of those types and it does hurt. The only thing I can suggest is to try to keep yourself preoccupied with something else. I'm sure you'll have other opportunities.
I don't know, maybe I was being too pessimistic yesterday. It's not that I don't have options necessarily (Apparently half the girls in my year fancied me in my last year of school, which I didn't find out until after I left school, because of course) My problem is similar to yours, I have issues with social anxiety so approaching a girl in a bar or a club, or at a party is just never going to go well for me, and that's why I feel like I just don't have options rn.
All I can really do rn is what you said, and hope to god I don't have any shifts with the girl for the next while.