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Old 10-18-08, 03:28 PM   #1
 
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hi, i am 15 and a virgin sadly. Almost every day since i was 12 i have masturbated... embarassing to admit but whatever i can confide in you guys. now all the sudden, i have been going through about a 4 week spell of just having NO desire to do it at all. And whats odd about it is during this time i developed feelings for a girl rather than just feelings for a girl's body.... are the two related? is my liking of this girl linked to my lack of masturbation desire? i no its stupid sorry.
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Old 10-18-08, 09:16 PM   #2
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Don't get obsessed about still having your virginity at 15. Everyone's in such a rush to lose it. Don't listen to the peer pressure. It will happen when it does, you are perfectly normal if it doesn't happen for several years yet. The important thing is to find the right girl.

There's nothing embarrassing about masturbation, it's a very normal thing. Around your age, puberty is still a factor, and hormones are also a factor, which might explain what you are feeling. I wouldn't think there should be any connection to desire for a girl and lack of sexual desire. Does this girl feel the same way about you? Have you talked to her?
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Old 10-18-08, 09:28 PM   #3
 
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hehe yea i dont think she ever notices me much... we have been in the same school for like 9 years but i think i have only ever been interested in her and not her in me.... its not like shes way out of my league or antying im just so shy and quiet all the time.
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15 is still young. I know people that age can talk about sex allllllll the time.. I remember it myself. But not many people actually do it at that age. Wait until you're ready.

As for masturbation.. if you fancy it, do it, if you don't, don't stress about it.

Its not weird or embarrassing or anything like that. Virtually everyone does it.
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To be perfectly honest, I'd rather be attracted to the girl than to her body. It's a more... honorable way of living. To be attracted to a girl's body isn't really to be attracted to girls. There has to be an emotion there. I don't think it has to do with lack of masturbating; more like just growing up.
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Ok, in my opinion, its NOT a good idea to lose your virginity at age 15. I started masturbating when I was 12, too. Its fine.
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I think its ok about what is happening to you and given there isn't a rule book about how often you should masturbate, when you should masturbate and the reasons you should masturbate, I would say you are normal! If you have feelings for this girl that go beyond the physical, perhaps it is because she means more to you than that...Being a virgin at 15 is not an issue. It's time for her to notice you. Perhaps you could put some of your testosterone fired energy into asking her for a date

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