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Old 06-28-14, 12:32 PM   #11
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Well Crystal, its 1st time euphoria, something natural, i also have high expectations to be honest. And those sex questions, are in my opinion very stupid, and they can be discussed properly with partner, and if relationship depends that much on sex, then i wouldnt like that relationship either, love, in its real sense is what would matter to me in relationship.
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Very true. But I tend to be very skeptical around sex and how people react to it. Not saying everyone isn't entitled to their own opinions of course, just that seeing repeated patterns that start out the same and tend to end the same makes me think otherwise.
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And i dont know how it is to most girls, but i know that my female "friends" who were talking to me about their first time, were always sharing slightly bad experience, but they also said that 2nd, 3rd time and so on it felt million times better. And guys being guys, always say it was awesome, but i wouldnt know.
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Wow you posted a reply in the time when i was typing next response lol.

And yeah i understand your point.
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Old 06-28-14, 01:41 PM   #15
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And i dont know how it is to most girls, but i know that my female "friends" who were talking to me about their first time, were always sharing slightly bad experience, but they also said that 2nd, 3rd time and so on it felt million times better. And guys being guys, always say it was awesome, but i wouldnt know.
This is what I mean. Usually when people have their first time, it turns out to be somewhat of a bad experience but what makes it more dissapointing is the idea behind it. I'm not demonizing sex, just that people should be a little more down to earth about it so as to not to hurt themselves.
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I understand what you mean. :)
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Old 06-29-14, 08:09 AM   #17
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I personally have masturbated whilst in and out of a relationship end honestly, it doesn't feel much different to me at all. Like someone mentioned above (I can't quote because I'm on my phone and it's too complicated lol) we all, at some point or another want our alone time and that can be whilstwwe're truly alone or whilst we're in a relationship.

From my experience, again like someone has mentioned absolu the more you have, the more you want. It's completely natural to masturbate and NO ONE should ever tell you differently, it's actually very helpful for both genders. Through the duration of your masturbation and more so when you climax your body releases chemicals known as endorphins, this causes emotions to run high (that's where your happy/sad feelings will stem from, believe it or not, some people will cry during sex, why? Just because!!) - It's relieves stress and pain, it boosts your immunity, it's good for your heart and best of yet, it can totally clear your mind.

I say, the more you 'try' it the more likely you'll be to stop feeling pitiful of yourself and the more likely you are to actually start enjoying it and feeling the benefits of it instead of the negatives!! :-)
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Oh and just to add, sex for the first time is normally a lot more uncomfortable for the woman than it is the man. Guys just like to boost and more often than not brag about how well they and their member performed when really, they probably didn't lol

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Too true XD
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I personally have masturbated whilst in and out of a relationship end honestly, it doesn't feel much different to me at all. Like someone mentioned above (I can't quote because I'm on my phone and it's too complicated lol) we all, at some point or another want our alone time and that can be whilstwwe're truly alone or whilst we're in a relationship.

From my experience, again like someone has mentioned absolu the more you have, the more you want. It's completely natural to masturbate and NO ONE should ever tell you differently, it's actually very helpful for both genders. Through the duration of your masturbation and more so when you climax your body releases chemicals known as endorphins, this causes emotions to run high (that's where your happy/sad feelings will stem from, believe it or not, some people will cry during sex, why? Just because!!) - It's relieves stress and pain, it boosts your immunity, it's good for your heart and best of yet, it can totally clear your mind.

I say, the more you 'try' it the more likely you'll be to stop feeling pitiful of yourself and the more likely you are to actually start enjoying it and feeling the benefits of it instead of the negatives!! :-)

Who knows lol, i just somehow always get those bad feelings, but its a short term tension release, so it kind of helps in channeling some frustration. And i definitely know anatomical perspective of it, haha just dont trust too much, in hormons controlling what we feel, i believe that mind is main thing, despite knowing all facts that prove me wrong. :D
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