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Old 05-18-07, 04:04 PM   #1
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Ok, first off this is a serious question. My bf says that masterbating a lot (not sure exactly how much) gives you more "staying power" in bed. Is that true? I have always thought the opposite. And is not being able to climax for a long time normal? He is almost 40.

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Old 05-18-07, 04:17 PM   #2
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It... umm... well let me just be frank...

I know a lot about masturbation... *-_-


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It depends on what kind of masturbation he does. Masturbation can desensitize your penis and that can increase your "staying power" also it can help you get more in tune. If you do it to much though and the wrong way it can lead to less "staying power". A lot of guys in relationships still masturbate... it is only really a problem if it affects your relationship.

He is 40.... as long as he stays hard, dont complain.

Are you saying he CANT climax for a long time and this is a problem... most guys would consider it a blessing I would think....

oh well that is all i got ta' say. o.o
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Thanks Z, I understand a little better now. I just didn't know about all of it. Mainly because it goes against most things that I have been told.
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Well as long as it does not affect anything adversely and you are not having any problems that could arise from it I don't see a problem. Just make sure he uses lub and cleans himself properly but a 40 year old should A already have the hang of it. B had it fall off already if he didnt get the hang of it.

I suspect it is the latter. :p
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I'm sorry, but :lol: HAHAHAHAHAHAH....LOL!

Not laughing at your bf, but I needed a laugh at the moment. No offense to anyone. Just the frankness of the conversation. Thanks for the giggle.

Well, it's like the old adage, practice makes perfect. :shock: As men get older they have more staying power b/c they have more experience and also our production of testosterone is less. On the other hand (no pun intended) the more you masturbate the more you stimuate production. Wouldn't worry too much about it. Alot of sex is mental too--yes, even for guys, so it's individual too.
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Thanks Tigg, Glad that you got a giggle.
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Z more or less has mentioned all that needs to be mentioned. With age your staying power decreases same applies for women who can be wet for as long as they could be like in their 20's but decreases with age.

By the way, Iris, I always thought you were a guy.
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With the name iris?? No I am a girl. thanks for the extra info.
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lol. Arent' you so glad you posted this, iris? See...be careful when you post in the guy section.
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