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Old 03-10-09, 11:22 PM   #1
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Ok I don't know if I am supposed to be posting here but you know what I want answers so sue me.
Honestly, I want to know. MEN, what do you guys REALLY want? I'll be honest I am one of those girls who has assumed all men are douches and only care about looks. But i know this is not true-just like that not all women are manipulative,cold hearted gold-diggers.

So tell me,honestly what do guys really want in a girl? And how come when guys are together and start talking about girls that you guys only discuss their appearance and bodies? and or their sex lives? What do men really like in women? What are some things about women you don't like?(like what could we change to be better girlfriends/wives) How do you want your girlfriend/wife to treat you? and how can we women read men? like how to tell if he will cheat or not?

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Hi Crystaltears :)

Unfortunately , theres no 1 answer to all .....

Ya see , i like a lady with a bit of class , ie one that doesn't need to show off her breasts every time shes out , someone who doesn't need to look at every bloke as they walk past .... this is insulting and makes me feel crap .
a woman that doesnt sulk every time i say something that she doesnt agree with , or just clam up and ignore me all day .

Not being took for granted is another one ..... made lots of fuss over , ie kisses and cuddles ... but then again , that might be my depression and the need to feel loved ?

Honesty , commitment , loyalty ......

Ya see , im a emotional person , yet the next bloke might like a girl who dresses like a tart ..... but saying that , once with her want her to cover up .

There are all sorts of people out there with all sorts of want and needs .

The art is finding the 1 person for you .... your soul mate :) .

In regards to cheating ... theres no way of knowing if a guy will cheat , you need trust in a relationship ... with out this , it wont work .

Have a nice day

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The art is finding the 1 person for you .... your soul mate :) .


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i have what i was looking for, but what i look for, is if she has a good heart that is most important to me, i find that so sexy, how does she treat others, i don't want her overly concerned with looks, i like i woman that get dressed up when time calls for it, but the rest of the time is just causal.

how i like to be treated, she has to stand by me, i like cuddles and hugs, she can't look at other guys when i'm with her, that is just rude, i like to be put first, i wnat her to treat me how i treat her and if i want her to change something i make sure i'm treating her that way if not i start if i am, then a talk is needed,

i don't like the moodness of woman, i understand it is something that can not be controled, but give me a warning, a heads up so i know what is going on

there is no way of knowing if i man will cheat or not, i don't do it but have been cheated on in the past, and that is a good point women cheat too, think guys get a bad wrap with that
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looks are not important to me, i want someone who will share the load in the following departments......

love, happiness, problems, good times, sex, money, feelings, thoughts, holidays, children, massages, doctors trips, health problems, caring,.....

shit i want a friend for lfe who will just share everything about herself...and i found mine, she is wonderful.
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And how come when guys are together and start talking about girls that you guys only discuss their appearance and bodies? and or their sex lives?
society nowadays .. of course not all guys do that either just like the other things.

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What do men really like in women?
varies, appearances aside I would say a big thing would be showing interest in them
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When selecting a mate appearance would be important, but i have a feeling most women underestimate their attractiveness.

The thing i dislke most about women is their gullibility.

I think the most important thing a woman can do for her man is look after him, keep him healthy and organised.
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A lot of guys think with their head... but not the one on their shoulders. Sad, but true.

If by some twist of fate you find a guy like that's not like that, he'll probably want loyalty, understanding, someone who appreciates him... pretty much the same stuff women want, now that I think about it.

Personally I'd look for the Holy Grail before I looked for a guy like that - the search would be more fulfilling.
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I just want someone who will treat me the same as I treat them, & think like I do:
Be honest, dont hurt my feelings, show me love, dont make me jealous because thats hurtful too, dont look at other men or talk of how u fancy other ppl in fornt of me, treat me with respect & dont change your attitude/persona in front of your friends/family, spend time with me more than your friends, when u say "yes" mean it or else be honest & say "no". Understand that when I say "no" its not rejection I'm just being honest. Look nice for me sometimes & not just when u go out with your friends

I think appearance is kinda important because the 1st thing that attracts me to a woman is the way she looks. It doesnt mean she has to be drop dead gorgeous, but a nice smile goes a long way for me. A smile can make a woman more attractive. I think that everyone has their own visual image in their head of what they percieve to be attractive & I think that we do tend to be attracted to a woman who looks a certain way.
Of course after the physical attraction comes the point where u find whether u are actually mentally attracted to this person, & this is where it'll either work or not. If theres no chemistry then it'll be a dead end.


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And how come when guys are together and start talking about girls that you guys only discuss their appearance and bodies?
Really? U think that only men do this? From my own personnal experience I have heard more women talk about mens arses, how they look, how their bf/some guy they met fucked them in certain postions/places, or how they gave them a blow job in the back of a car or how big their dick was/wasnt, or how they crave a dick inside them at the moment. I find women seem to be more vulgar than men these days.
And for me personnaly I dont want to know what ppl get up to nor do I share any details of my sex life with others either.
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Ok. I'll be honest in my answer; and this only goes for me though!
I do judge by looks quite a bit to be honest! Ill have an "okay" looking girl though if she has a great personality! but it'd be really hard for me to date someone "ugly." Though it is possible.... so looks play a definite role, but are not everything!

In personality.. it's weird. Sometimes i want an outgoing girl, sometimes i want a quiet girl. lol. I want one who is mostly sweet to me, and is nice, one who can make me smile, also one im not too shy around lol.
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