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Old 01-31-11, 03:36 AM   #21
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When my girlfriend and I first started dating, she invited me back to hers on our second date (she has since said she wasn't planning to, it just happened). I wasn't ready, and told her that. She even commented at the time "I've never had a guy turn down sex before." She seemed so let down, which is kinda flattering lol. I had to wait a bit longer until I was ready, and I'm glad I did.
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Old 01-31-11, 03:55 AM   #22
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I wish I had that problem, but I only turned down sex once in my life and it was because I was too tired to carry out the deed.
This was years ago and I haven't had any since 2004. and frankly its put me into a severe depression I rarely get out of (the lack of sex not the turning down).
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Old 02-17-11, 07:33 PM   #23
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Hmm I turned sex down the other day, me and my girlfriend have been going out for a while. But it just didn't feel right, tried to explain myself. She seemed surprised. I'm a virgin at 20 years old, just didn't want it to mean nothing. Hate the fact most guys are after sex, when I'd much rather just laugh and cuddle.
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Old 02-17-11, 08:55 PM   #24
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not gonna lie... sure there is a HUGE difference between meaningless sex and true passionate, endearing sex... i have had both... and i have never experienced anything as physically enthralling as it is emotionally as the pasionate sex... and i know i'm lucky to have had such...

but as for the meaningless... well... i'm not a womanizer nor will i simply fuck anyone... however... i'll be honest... sex feels good... use protection and get your fuck on.... (as long as it is clearly consensual.... )

sorry for being crude... but the best sex i've ever had was with a woman who eventually tore my heart out... so does that mean what i thought was passionate was meaningless? hmm...
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Old 02-24-11, 11:42 AM   #25
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I have turned down sex several times. Not usually with someone I am dating, but sometimes I have. When it was some woman I knew who wanted to hook up, I turned them down. Not sure why looking back, but I did. Just trying to follow some moral code.
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