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This is a discussion on Masturbation Complication within the Male Issues forums, part of the Life's Other Challenges category; Originally Posted by TellMeSweetLies Thanks! I'm 15, by the way. jeezus! 15?! what the hell are you worried about man, ...

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Old 01-14-11, 10:25 AM   #21
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Thanks! I'm 15, by the way.

jeezus! 15?! what the hell are you worried about man, keep jackin. your dick will probably be a 24/7 hard-on for the next few years so enjoy it. no shame in it at all, you're not hurting anybody. it can actually be a great form of stress relief.


and i know what you mean by that strange depressing feeling after the climax, but over time that wears off. theres no reason to feel guilty about it.

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Old 07-03-11, 06:20 AM   #22
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God! There's absolutely nothing wrong with masturbating. As much as you want. Really. If you feel like doing it, then do it. You will be your own regulator. There's no such thing as too much, either. 30 seems a bit high, but by no means wrong. I believe my personal record was 12 in one day... At 15 years old.
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Old 07-03-11, 07:10 PM   #23
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Lol, everyone masturbates all the time at age 15. I sure as hell did.

The only thing I might recommend is learning to enjoy your own body, how different sensations feel and experiment, rather than go at it like a jackhammer with an iron grip every time and all the time. You'll thank yourself later when you have a woman in your life.

But don't sweat it dude. What you are experiencing is normal.
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Old 09-26-11, 01:52 AM   #24
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While reading your post I didnít know whether to laugh or cry. Laugh because it brought back memories of when I was younger or cry because it brought back memories of what I could do when I was younger. Your 15, tug to your heartsí content, one day youíll look back on the good old days when you could do all night what it now takes you all night to do.
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Old 10-05-11, 09:10 PM   #25
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I feel embarrassed for posting...
I'm 20 and hadn't even considered touching myself until mid last year. I had been watching porn since I was around 15 and eventually grew to resent the idea and concept of it...I stopped for around a year, I was 16-17 I think...furthermore, it was never frequent viewing. Once every few weeks or so. I got a girlfriend last year and it was then that I decided to actually masturbate...it was a terrific and elating feeling afterwards. It also felt right, because my girlfriend and I could only communicate via Skype at the time (she lives overseas) and I would do it mutually with her. In the times that we couldn't talk to or see one another, however, I would resort to looking at porn......I've tried to stop watching it several times. I recognise myself as something of a 'post-feminist.' I can't stand the public degradation of women or misogyny of any kind, furthermore I see them as worthy of the utmost respect and definitely not objects of whatever horny desires people might have. And yet here I am, still watching porn, masturbating to it, and feeling horrible afterwards, particularly now that my girlfriend has left me. It's almost like flagellation...I ejaculate and it's all over and I question my worth, my values, my consistency of beliefs and convictions...perhaps I'm just a sucker for punishment?
I've spoken about this with my psychologist and he told me to view it from the angle that some pornographic material is quite 'empowering' (bad word?) for women in that it shows women who are comfortable in their body and with their sexuality. I can't watch hardcore shit...I stick strictly to softcore pornography where there really isn't any form of intercourse at all. My psychologist also recognised that I was (and still am) aiming for very purist standards of myself, and that it might be worth analysing how realistic I'm being...
Still...it's a compulsion...and I'd very much like to stop...I know I'm young, but I'd prefer to get past this particular degrading (and messy) period of my life.
My main question, I guess, is that if it's normal for a 15 year old like the OP to masturbate once or twice daily; is it normal for a 20 year old to do much the same?
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Old 10-15-11, 05:08 PM   #26
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Everyone's sex drive is particular to them. It also fluctuates over time- some months you feel hornier than others.

What you're experiencing is completely normal for a guy in his 20s, even 30s. Most psychologist will tell you that masturbation is really only excessive if it's getting in the way of you living a normal life. Is it getting in the way of you living a normal life? Do you regularly abandon social gatherings so you can go jerk off by yourself? Would you prefer to masturbate rather than to have sex with a girl?

No? Then you're completely normal. Don't worry so much about this sex thing!
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Old 10-16-11, 11:50 PM   #27
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Thanks Blansky!
Those things you mentioned...aren't how it is with me. I guess there's just the nagging thought in the back of my head of using women as a commodity that I don't like...I tend to over-philosophize on the issue.
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Old 10-17-11, 09:51 AM   #28
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You're welcome.

I can empathise with those concerns. Here's the thing, though- women and men are going to continue to have sex in front of a camera for others' enjoyment, regardless of whether you buy it or not, watch it or not, enjoy it or not.

So go ahead and enjoy it, guilt-free.

If it really, really bothers you that the performers are receiving money for this (like I said, you needn't feel guilty- they're going to continue to do it no matter what you do) then there are websites where people post 'amateur' porn for free.

This is porn that couples post online because they get their kicks from doing so. They don't get any kind of remuneration for it- they've just decided to have sex and share it with other people.

I'm sure they'd enjoy your patronage!
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