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Old 07-17-09, 04:45 PM   #1
 
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I masturbate frequently... too frequently. The thing is, one minute I'm hell-bent on jacking-off, and afterwards, I feel so depressed, like, this is what I'm going to be for the rest of my life, but the next minute, I'm hell-bent on doing it again. I don't want to do this anymore. I want to move on with my life and get out of this habit. Someone, help, please!
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Well, first off, how old are you?
Secondly, anything up to one to a few times a day is probably not too frequent depending on your age, health and whether or not you feel it's a compulsion. Sexual problems are super hard to discuss sometimes. Trust me I know, but don't worry about it too much, stressing over it can make you want to do it more.

Running always helps me keep from doing the deed... So do situps and push-ups. Good luck!
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Old 07-17-09, 05:07 PM   #4
 
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Thanks! I'm 15, by the way.
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Old 07-17-09, 06:40 PM   #5
 
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God, 15? Don't worry man. Trust me. When you're 15 is EXACTLY the time things get bad. I know some people who did it up to 30 times a day when they were 15. Just wait awhile, excercise more and try to avoid porn women and sexually shaped objects.
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dude you're 15, no problem there champ! 30 times a day would be a little excessive though. U might want to find a few girls and let loose on them though use protection.
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I know what you are talking about. It's like one minute you are in heaven and when you climax it's like wtf am i doing? But I'm 17 and when I was 15 I was like that. I still do it occasionally and it's led me to the predicament I am in right now. So just try to stop doing it so often. Stop for 3 days and see hoe good you feel, and when you get older 3 or 4 years later, you wont feel like me.
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Old 08-22-09, 12:10 AM   #8
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To understand the physiology and your reaction a little bit, this wikipedia link may be of use. Specifically the bit about Prolactin. It's pertinent to this topic because it explains part of why you have a sudden change of mood afterward. So whatever guilt you might have is getting unduly amplified by the side-effects of this 'refractory period.' What I'm trying to say is that it's not that bad, your body's just playin a trick on you. ;)

One of the wacky things about men is that our thought processes, to a very subtle degree, are fundamentally influenced by our sex drive for potentially most of the time. It really shows through when you look at the sudden mood change after ejaculation.
Sometimes women don't quite get that, hehe.
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Old 08-22-09, 01:30 AM   #9
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i doubt alot of my motives around around sex. I still masturbate since i dont feel like going out into the world to meet anyone right now. Its just my way of relieving myself of the sexual feelings that build up over time. im 18 and they still build up pretty quickly, i can probably go two weeks tops and then id have a night to myself. normally ill go about 2up to 7 times a week. It probably would help to find a lady. If you continue to have the same problem years later, you might be a chronic masturbator, but you have nothing to worry about.

i get how you can get depressed afterwards, ive been like that. not so much anymore cuase it doesnt make much sense to get sad afterwards. masturbating should release endorphins.
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Old 09-21-09, 08:29 PM   #10
 
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Heh, I'm 14 and I try to avoid masturbation... I don't really know why... It's a cross between not being bothered and not wanting to get into that. But when I'm depressed, things usually just switch around and it's the only thing that relieves me... Well... Kinda... Afterwards I go back to feeling just as (if not more) depressed. Being male sucks sometimes :p And what's worse is I hate the idea of porn... I even hate porn. But I can't help watch it... Meh.
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