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Old 03-23-09, 04:42 PM   #1
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Okay, I hope no one reading this will think differently of me, but it is an issue I have. It is the body I have in life, so I must quetsion it.

Alright here's the meat of the issue;
Im quite young, and I have quite a bit of pubic hair, especially for my age...

When I've seen porn, 99% of the guys DONT have pubic hair...so I'm really shy/embarrassed of it, and have been thinking of shaving it....

any guys have insight on this issue? or if any females read it, please share if you'd like as well!

But remember, I was kinda shy to post this, so I hope no one will think differently of me for it, because it is just how my body grew, I cannot help it.
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Old 03-23-09, 04:45 PM   #2
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Everyone goes through puberty at different ages. Everyone is different. There's nothing wrong with going through it a little sooner than others. Perhaps you could talk to your doctor, he or she might have better insight. But, as far as I know, it's really not a big deal. I went through puberty at 12, had a lot of pubic hair at that point, too.
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It's perfectly natural to wonder. And I have a 17 y/o son that has been shaving his for guite sometime now, he also has alot of chest hair that he shaves, I personally think he is carrying it a bit to far with the chest hair, but he does it every single day!
Whatever you are comfortable with! :)

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most models/guys that do porn etc shave it. but pubes are normal and nothing to be embarressed about.
i was also about 11 or 12 when i went thru it and also had plenty of pubic hair. ugh i hate saying that word. lol,
you're 17/18 tho... so i really dont think u have anything to worry about.



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I didn't mean you should be embarressed by it, everyone has them! What you do with them is up to you!
I was re-reading my post and thought I sounded like I was encouraging shaving, I'm just saying that is what my son does :)

Now I'm embarressed :(
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trim!....shaving/waxing etc etc isn't worth the trouble for guys...guys are expected to have hair....who cares what age you get it at....it's meant to be manly!....

I remember back in primary/early high school when guys were WISHING for any kind of hair!...lol...if you're getting it early....you're simply more manly than everyone else right now!....and there's seriously nothing wrong with that!

Guys that go and shave/wax everything off...well...I'll give my two cents...I think it's silly....but I also think that guys that get a lot of pubic hair all over and don't even bother to trim (this is mainly referring to the lower region!) it is quite unappealing too....it's all about finding what works for you....and if there's a partner...your partner to =)

but certainly don't be embarrassed about it!!!....unless you're looking to become a porn star or are seriously hating hair (I do have to admit that for myself....I can't stand hair...but on my partner I couldn't really care less as long as they don't let it turn into a massive forest)....overgrown pubic hair just kinda....gets in the way... hehe

anyways hope this helps...embrace your manliness!
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There was a kid in my class in Primary School who had pubic hair. He was about 10 yrs old.
Everyone gets hair in different amounts. Try trimming it a little if u want. Thats what I do, so it looks tidier ;).
For gods sake dont shave it off. I tried it a few times (its supposed to make your dick look bigger so they say LOL) but it gets itchy & rashy & u look like youve got crabs or something when you're scratching down there!!

Porn stars shave their pubic triangle smaller or all off so their dick looks longer for the cameras ha ha!!
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Okay, I hope no one reading this will think differently of me, but it is an issue I have. It is the body I have in life, so I must quetsion it.

Alright here's the meat of the issue;
Im quite young, and I have quite a bit of pubic hair, especially for my age...

When I've seen porn, 99% of the guys DONT have pubic hair...so I'm really shy/embarrassed of it, and have been thinking of shaving it....

any guys have insight on this issue? or if any females read it, please share if you'd like as well!

But remember, I was kinda shy to post this, so I hope no one will think differently of me for it, because it is just how my body grew, I cannot help it.
Hmm. Maybe you should at least trim it.
My husband shaves his off, but with electric clippers, so it's not a super-close shave, which would probably result in razor burn & ingrown hairs.
I personally think pubic hair is kind of gross (on males and females).
The more there is, the grosser it is to me.
I shave mine off whenever I get around to it, which is not that often.

I guess the point is, if you don't like it, then trim or shave it.
If it doesn't bother you, then leave it.
It's your body, you get to decide.
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Thanks everyone!!! The advice has surely helped a lot. =).
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Don't base your body image or sexuality on what you see in porn. Everything in mainstream porn is done for the camera; what people look like and what they do in real life is often considerably different - this applies to every aspect, not just shaving. While most men in porn are shaved bare, most men outside porn probably aren't.

Personally, I don't think shaving is necessary, but everyone has a different opinion on what they prefer, as you can quickly see from reading this thread! :) I highly, highly doubt that anyone would ever reject you based on whether you shave or not. If you have any concerns about what your partner thinks, ask them!

If you choose to go the shave route, be sure to read up on how to do it correctly so you don't end up with cuts or ingrown hairs.

Also, for what it's worth, I don't think anyone here is going to think less of you here for posting this. I think most people ask themselves questions like this at one point or another in their lives, and it's good to talk about it, since it usually leads to acceptance of your body, and better self image. You should be proud of yourself for asking about this and getting your concerns resolved! :)
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