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Old 05-01-16, 09:43 AM   #31
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Bless your heart, Black Sheep. At 22 you don't know what the future holds for you but telling yourself you will never have a girlfriend is just as bad as someone else telling you will never do something - and that is dreadfuly insultingl! There's such a thing as self-fulfilling prophecy so try not to fall into that trap. There will be things that you can achieve, if you concentrate on those, who knows, you may find that you meet someone.
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Old 05-19-16, 01:46 AM   #32
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Bless your heart, Black Sheep. At 22 you don't know what the future holds for you but telling yourself you will never have a girlfriend is just as bad as someone else telling you will never do something - and that is dreadfuly insultingl! There's such a thing as self-fulfilling prophecy so try not to fall into that trap. There will be things that you can achieve, if you concentrate on those, who knows, you may find that you meet someone.
meh, I don't really buy into that self-fulfilling prophecy crap. I don't think my beliefs necessarily determine my future. I didn't think I would get through high school but I graduated with honors. I never thought I would be able to get my driver's license, but it happened somehow. The universe is random. People overestimate how much control they have over their lives. We can choose our actions but it doesn't guarantee anything. At the very least, 50% of it comes down to luck. I was dealt a terrible hand in this facet of life. I can't talk to girls and I don't think any girl would ever find me desirable.

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Old 05-19-16, 01:54 AM   #33
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Bless your heart, Black Sheep. At 22 you don't know what the future holds for you
at what age will I acquire this ability?
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Old 05-19-16, 06:59 PM   #34
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I don't know, not having the gift of prophecy :-).
Sounds like you have been pretty successful in many ways so far in life, despite being pessimistic about it. You are pessimistic about the chance of having a girlfriend, maybe that will work out like the other things.
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Old 05-29-16, 11:59 PM   #35
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I don't know, not having the gift of prophecy :-).
Sounds like you have been pretty successful in many ways so far in life, despite being pessimistic about it. You are pessimistic about the chance of having a girlfriend, maybe that will work out like the other things.
hahaha, good one.

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Old 06-16-16, 12:32 PM   #36
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I can sort of relate to OP, the social side of my brain evaporated years ago. talking to women, let alone getting into a relationship is tantamount as climbing two mountains. But these issues with women come from deeper issues. If I got into a relationship it would only make things worse. I choose to look at my isolation as an opportunity to sort out all of my issues and find happiness and self esteem without other people. I think that's the key, to be comfortable enough to stand on your own whether people want you or not.
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Sometimes I wish the internet didn't exist. It is so much better to be unaware of people's thoughts/opinions on certain issues. Ignorance is bliss.

I made the mistake of reading the comments section of an article about incel men (frustrated virgins). It was very upsetting to see how cruel and uncaring so many women are. They have no empathy whatsoever. For a long time I stupidly believed that women were the more caring/sympathetic sex, but the past few years have taught me how wrong I was. It's no wonder there are so many angry young men in the world. Reading stuff like this makes me think that relationships aren't worth the effort. These bitches are fucking toxic. Why would any sane man seek their affection or approval? Fuck it. Probably better to just see a prostitute or have one night stands.
I'm grateful for the internet since I have no other outlet for my issues, but you have a point, sometimes it does expose us to the worst of people
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Old 06-22-16, 11:37 PM   #38
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thanks for the replies, zoot.

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If I got into a relationship it would only make things worse. I choose to look at my isolation as an opportunity to sort out all of my issues and find happiness and self esteem without other people. I think that's the key, to be comfortable enough to stand on your own whether people want you or not.
there are times when I feel like this too. Once in a while I just stop caring about all this stuff. I'm able to temporarily focus on myself and appreciate the little things in my life. I'm sort of in that state of mind right now tbh. The problem is, it never lasts. It's only a matter of time before I start feeling suicidal about everything again. My perspective and mood changes so drastically... Sometimes I wonder if I'm bipolar. I wish I could just accept my circumstances and be at peace.
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Old 09-09-16, 07:28 PM   #39
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God damn, there are so many hot girls at my new college. It's torture knowing that I'll never have a chance at getting with any of them. I don't bother talking to them because they all seem oblivious to my existence or repulsed by me. The thing I don't understand is how there are uglier guys than me getting their attention. Seems like girls are only attracted to guys with a muscular build and/or social status. It's too bad these sluts don't care about anything else. I have neither of those qualities so I'm doomed to be a virgin for life unless I hire a prostitute.
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Old 09-09-16, 07:41 PM   #40
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I hate this oversexualized culture. I wish I grew up in a different era. All of these girls are so promiscuous and outspoken about their sexuality and trashy behavior. It's extremely off-putting. What happened to having some class or values? It makes me so angry. I hate these trashy bitches but I really want to screw them. There are girls 4-5 years younger than me who have probably had more dicks in them than I can count. And they've probably already consumed more alcohol than I'll drink in my entire life. Fuck this generation man.
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