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Old 07-30-12, 06:07 PM   #11
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I keep busy guys but I gets the urge even without my computer
Was feeding birds the other day and one of em started looking kinda...just kidding.

But yeah I'm just focusing on being less horny as a person, thinking of girls less and etc.

I just showered and am centered, so will just chillax and if I see temptation coming, hopefully it won't have me coming. Pun intended

Listen man, having the horn lots is healthy
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Listen man, having the horn lots is healthy
Tell that to my boxers!
The "I spilled milk" excuse only works so many times...
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Tell that to my boxers!
The "I spilled milk" excuse only works so many times...

Yes, I have been known to leave a Casper or two myself on them
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Old 08-02-12, 12:47 PM   #14
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Honestly? Never saw the point of porn, myself, when you've got a functioning hand and a healthy imagination.

As for becoming less horny, I've heard getting married helps. (Please kill me. That joke was horrible. ._. )

In all seriousness, I never found a solution. I could masturbate right before heading off to college and 5 minutes into the drive there it would be just as bad as before I tried to take care of it. Basically I just "took care of the problem" 5 or 6 times a day and dealt with it until I found someone.

In other words: I think this is one of those things you just have to tough out. At least it was with me.
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Old 08-02-12, 12:59 PM   #15
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yeah cant say i ever got real into porn myself. All i could see was fake women, and it made me have less respect for them. I guess im into self respect and confidence.

Anyway-just lowering the amount of time you "deal with it" can help eventually. And finding other things to focus on when you get the urge is helpful. Cold showers =P
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mensot you are so funny
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This is cute .

I personally just masturbate a bunch and watch occasional porn so I don't feel pressure to act on my sex drive in the real world. Having a sex drive is normal. I've ranged from 0-7 orgasms a day. Women are beautiful, no doubt. I do understand that it may feel "filthy".

You could condoms to masturbate into. It makes stuff a lot cleaner and saves your washing machine the trouble of getting rid of protein stains.

Wanting to have sex with a woman is pretty normal (even if is like 1000x a day). I've wanted to have sex with the woman I love all the damn time (2-3x a day was preferred).

When my sex drive has cooled down, then I do stuff in the day that I normally like to do. I like playing video games or playing with cute kids and kittens or playing guitar. I might search for jobs or research psychology or exercise with my uncle or eat some almonds or whatever.

Porn nowadays is just titillation. I know it's not real and it's REALLY hard to get off at something that is so atrociously fake. Sure, the visuals might be nice...but often times the acting and fallacy of it just make it so hard to get turned on. I've let my imagination take over...it gets a little more powerful and feels more real.
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Imagination is always a lot better. I agree with the fakeness of porn too. Hell even just thinking back to the crazy sex I used to have or love making can do it for me. I usually end up laughing at porn
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Your problem is sexual self-repression.
Watch more porn, have have more sex with your partner.
It'll clear your head.

It's a basic psychological principle: The more you try to deny yourself, the more your body and mind will act in opposition.

Now that's not to renounce yourself and walk in the Comus-laden path of excess as Gauis Caligula so did, but to simply just give in to the urge when it rises.

protip: Women want it just as bad as men do.

Women are conflicted on porn usage however, but I honestly believe that if you're a self-delving individual that you'll learn to easily differentiate between fantasy and reality and simply not create such ludicrous and pointless expectations. Simply put: watch porn because it's healthy, but don't let it get to your head, because reality isn't like that at all.

Hope that helped some. Merry well upon your travels and experiences.

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