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Old 04-20-09, 10:00 PM   #1
 
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I think I have a problem with premature ejaculation. I simply can't last long enough for my gf who has only ever had orgasms through intercourse. She doesn't masturbate. In my old relationship, I used to make my gf come with oral and manual stimulation, but my new gf doesn't really like either of those. She gets really sensitive.

BTW - She's fresh out of a marriage and hasn't had an orgasm in about 6 years. I've been with her for almost a year.

My, um, lasting power is anywhere between 3-5 minutes a session. I'm also on Anti depressants which at first made things longer, but not so much any more.

I really really really want to make her happy. I love her so much. She tells me it's not important, but I think that I'm disappointing her.

Any suggestions, advice from men or women is extremely welcome.
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i have no idea, you could check with your doctor or something... Or think about something else while having sex to try to keep from cumming.
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I think there are meds for that. I have a similiar problem. My ex wife was like your last gf. I could take care of her first. But at least for me, for the moment, I dont have to worry about that.
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I'm actually nervous about when I do finally meet a new girl and go to bed with her that I'll be too quick. A few years ago I was on Lexapro and that enabled to me to last as long as I wanted (except when the dosage was upped and I couldn't finish at all). It's a tough subject, and I'm sure it effects more men than we're lead to believe.
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I actually don't like for it to last too long. I get sore quickly and than all I do is cringe waiting for him to 'finish'.....so I LOVE it when he's done in just 5 mins!

I've never been able to have an orgasm with intercourse, so maybe that's why I don't like for it to last long.
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they have adds on the radio here ALL the time about premature ejaculation and that there's a nasal medication..."up your nose and away you go" lol...hear them every 5 minutes on the radio!
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they have adds on the radio here ALL the time about premature ejaculation and that there's a nasal medication..."up your nose and away you go" lol...hear them every 5 minutes on the radio!

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orajel. seriously.
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I actually don't like for it to last too long. I get sore quickly and than all I do is cringe waiting for him to 'finish'.....so I LOVE it when he's done in just 5 mins!

I've never been able to have an orgasm with intercourse, so maybe that's why I don't like for it to last long.
LOL...I'm right there with you!!
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