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Old 05-06-11, 01:07 PM   #1
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In chronological order:
1. I get a crush on her(but not one out of thin air, it's pretty logical).
2. I tell her I love her and she replies with 'thanks'.
3. 10 days later I ask if she likes me, she replies with 'a bit, but I only like you'.
4. Now.

What do I do?
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Sagerch:

Based on experience, I would accept the fact that she likes you and nothing more. Might seem hard to do, but it will go away with time, believe me, I have been there. I hope only the best for you.
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and hugs to you as well.

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I'd rather try and get pushed away than not try and regret it. There is nothing to lose here for trying.
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I grant you that point. Then go for it and see what happens. I will be rooting for you. Take care and all the best. I hope it goes well for you.
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Old 05-25-11, 08:52 PM   #6
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hope u don't mind a response from a woman..
are u dating her?
u could always give it some time, it may be all it needs
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was the "thanks" hesitant or sincere?
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Biggest question here is how old are you...and her? When you use the word "crush" I'm thinking 15 or 16....??
Being hit with the "L" word kinda out of the blue might be a bit overwhelming for her...It's not clear if you've been dating or just saw her and liked her.
If your under 30, forget about anything exclusive...meet and date as many girls as you can cause that's the only way your gonna know when you find a good one.
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the situation appears to be very clear..."thanks + i like you but not like that" = not interested. hard to make it any more clear without outright insulting someone.

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