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Old 01-14-11, 10:43 AM   #51
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hm... maybe i'm alone on this, but i say (for guys at least) sexual desire is not something to be suppressed.

its a myth that pressure from society and the media are the only reasons people have sex at a young age. you wanna know why men are quick to have sex? its because of instinct. we hit puberty and develop a sex drive. its a natural desire and i don't think you should suppress it.

its actually different forms of social pressure (religion, parental guilt) that give sex all these false connotations of being sinful or sacred. if you take sex too seriously you'll probably find yourself trying to force "love" upon every girl that you have interest in. and you'll start to develop all these unrealistic expectations of finding the perfect girl and the perfect relationship with the happy fairy tale ending. its all bullshit.

if you fall in love, great... but don't miss out on sexual opportunities just because you're uptight about whether or not its "the right time" or "the right girl".

i know women have a different outlook on this (mainly because theres no skill in convincing a man to have sex with you), but with men the loss of virginity is something to take pride in. its an accomplishment and possibly one of the best natural ways of boosting a male ego. similar to winning a fist fight.
I lost several fist fights but i never lost my virginity. So maybe that explains why my confidence and my life sucks. i don't knwo
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I lost several fist fights but i never lost my virginity. So maybe that explains why my confidence and my life sucks. i don't knwo
even losing a fist fight can be looked at as an achievement on some level. as long as you stand up for yourself and prove you're not afraid to fight.
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even losing a fist fight can be looked at as an achievement on some level. as long as you stand up for yourself and prove you're not afraid to fight.
I have, several times. But when i did there was always 2-3 people attacking me at the same time. That's why i 'lost', outnumbered.
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