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Old 10-13-09, 01:17 AM   #1
 
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ok so here's the story. i broke up with my boyfriend about 6 mouths ago. we hadn't talked for a while, but one day out of nowhere, he texted me. saying "hi". i didnt know what to say so i just said "hi" back. Long story short, we got into this whole big conversation where he told me he got really depressed after i left and tried kill himself ( btw: is that mean of him to say, or is it just keeping it real?). of course i felt really guilty and i still do. the think i feel most guilty about is not being there. if i had just made the effort to maybe say hi to him after we broke up maybe this never would have happened. well anyway, he has a girlfriend now and the roles have reversed. he's telling me how happy he is and how i am going to find someone someday. even so, i feel really alone now. like everybody has someone but me. (i guess that's how he felt when we broke up) and i just cant get over it. whats worse, i have to see him everyday in class now and it's really awkward. he just isnt talking to me, like almost completely ignoring me. i guess it's because we haven't talked in so long but recently we have been. there's no reason for him to shut me out like that. i just feel like no ones ever going to talk to me again. i don't know what to do. i just feel like i have no one.
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Old 10-14-09, 05:56 PM   #2
 
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Hey I kinda went through that situation. I broke up with my boyfriend about 9 months ago and for the first 6 months it was really hard. And initially we did not talk at all, and I felt so alone all the time. Then we talked for a while, but we were not on the same page so then stopped talking again. But in time it got a little better.
And it is ok that you did not say hi initially. You didn't know how he was going to react. Plus he is ok so that counts. What he said about killing himself, it might be just to keep it real, but that always brings up feelings of guilt for me. But really there is nothing that you can do. But I personally find that statement somewhat manipulative, not necessarily intentionally though.

I know its hard to deal with. And you are def. not alone.
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