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Old 11-30-12, 11:17 AM   #1
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I am struggling with depression. I have had trouble with it all my life, but I manage it fairly well due to closely watching my mood. Talking about my feelings helps and so I am here.

I have been having trouble dealing with my complete lack of a dating life. I have not been with a woman in over 4 years, partially because I don't believe in casual sex. I am looking for a relationship. Where I am living I can't find women who have the qualities I am looking for, primarily honesty, intelligence, & compassion. Every woman I meet here that might have those qualities is married. The single women here I wouldn't want to touch even if I believed in casual sex. Many are.... not very choosy as to who they sleep with. Many having several partners a week. A lot of them stay with or like guys with a history of abusing or just demeaning women. Why is it the guy that respects women and wants a equal partnership relationship can't find a woman. It makes me want to SCREAM an cry all at the same time.
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Old 11-30-12, 03:17 PM   #2
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Wow... if I lived near you.. I would definately want to date you... Have you tried a dating service? Not necessarily internet dating but something more concrete? Women are everywhere, and there are some who would like to be with a decent bloke such as yourself. Dont give up yet....
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I have not thought of a dating service.... I will look into it, but since I live in an area that was wiped out by Katrina I don't think so. It is something I have not thought of before. The online dating thing I have tried and it never works. Women never want to talk to me. Not to mention many of the sites have devolved into sex hookup sites. Not my thing.
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Forget the internet... look into dating agencies which are real face to face companies... It may be a bit strange at first, but the seriousness will be there for all the participants....
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Hi RVarin. I can see that it would be frustrating if the available women around you don't have the qualities you're looking for. I am always surprised when I hear men like you describe how the women they meet just don't have the basics of honesty, intelligence, and compassion. I guess, as you said, most of them are already married? Just wanted to say that it's very admirable of you to hold out for what you want, even though it may take longer to find.
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Old 12-10-12, 07:14 PM   #7
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"Good"
"Women"
Oxymoron.
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Tesco's I think.

I wish I knew myself.
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Old 12-10-12, 07:42 PM   #9
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gee...thanks Soulbound

As if we don't already feel bad enough about ourselves... now we get to be insulted in a place where we seek support and comfort
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Old 12-10-12, 07:48 PM   #10
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Take no notice Yang.
Men who dislike women say things like that because they dislike themselves more.

Keep those eyes level
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