Today something very serious and bad happened. I looked at that girl's instagram account only to see that she is making suggestive comments on some other guys pictures now. I really don't know what to think anymore.

For almost 4 years I was with this girl and talked to her literally every single day from the moment I woke up to the moment I went to sleep I talked to this girl. She always told me how much she loved me and how she would never break my trust for life. Every time I had a problem she would spend hours just to comfort me and help me feel better. I could have never even imagined for her to be like this. I genuinely thought she was a good person.

Now I'm just even more confused. I never thought this girl was like this. I always thought she was a decent person. I'm so confused right now I literally have no idea what to think anymore. Suddenly she's just posting selfies now, talking to so many random new people over 1,000 followers and following on instagram and now she's just behaving in a way I've never seen her behave the whole 4 years I've been with her.

It's like she was never what I thought she was or she doesn't even care about me anymore. I can't help wonder if she was even genuine or not all these years I've known her. My mind is so messed up right now. I've never been so traumatized in my life. I wish someone would care enough to help me. After I saw this I messaged one of her friends on Facebook who said so many bad things to me like 'creep' 'stalker' and 'disgusting' and to fuck off and leave her alone.

How could anyone be so cruel? To make so many promises for years and to lead me on only to betray me and start acting like this? I literally don't know what to think anymore. I regrettably loved this girl more than anything in the world for years and now she just completely betrayed me. I have no idea what to think anymore. Maybe someone here can shed some light on this issue.

I'm so hurt and confused right now. Nothing is making sense

Please someone help me. Be blunt if you have to. I need to get over this.

MOVE ON!!!

You said I could be blunt.

Thanks for replying. You're right it's long time I moved on but I just don't understand why she would do this to me.

You may never understand why.

If you ask her directly she may not even tell you the truth.

And if you get the truth its probably gonna hurt as much as this agony you are putting yourself thru.

Ive had exes tell me virtually nothing, and had them be blunt and honest and blab on for what seemed like hours about the relationship problems. It hurts the same either way.

Its best to try to find a way to let this go.

If anyone wants to add anything they are thinking please do so. Feel free to be honest and blunt. At this point I think I should accept the truth. Thanks

Hey I appreciate it so much that you replied. You should know that this girl used to literally tell me every day that she will never break my trust and always love me just as much as her best friend for life. She always said nothing was wrong and I was just being 'paranoid' whenever I had a suspicion about her.

Looking back on it now I don't know whether that 'paranoia' was indeed accurate or if she's been just lying to me all these years. I just wish she would have the decency to tell me the truth then leave. The only thing she said is about me being obsessive and abusive/threatening. Whether that was an excuse or the truth I don't really know.

I don't get it anymore. Was she just a slut all this time? Was I just too blind to see it? Was she genuine? Was she a fraud? Was what she said even the real reason she left? I don't even know what to think anymore at this point.

I can't believe this. I never would have thought this would ever happen in a million years.