No point going into why, a) because I don't feel like it and b) because I'd be rehashing shit I've already gone into before. Just feeling really fucking low right now. Not a virgin, but REALLY inexperienced nonetheless, and the thought of dating someone I've met is scaring the shit out of me. God I'm so fucking pathetic.

Hey, I hear you. I've been married for 18 years but sex is still a problem. My wife told me over 11 years ago that she didn't want to have sex with me any more because she no longer found me attractive. She still doesn't. The times we've had sex since then can be counted on my fingers without counting any finger twice, any it's pretty clear that the times we did have sex she considered it a mercy fuck. You may have options that I don't, however. There are a lot of websites for people looking for no-stings-attatched sex. They charge you to contact other people, but as long as you have a credit card you're good. It may not be the rainbow's end but it may tide you over until something more real comes along. And by the way, you're not pathetic. Nobody here is pathetic, not even me.

Nah man, that's not where my heads at all, I don't want casual sex (though I admit I'm embarrassed about not having had much of it in the past). The issue is I've met someone I like who likes me too, but I'm shit scared about taking it further because of my insecurities. I'm so worried I'm gonna scare her off or make her unattracted to me when she finds out how inexperienced I am.

Started sayin something to help but its just words, Just be yourself was the best I could come up with mate x