I have been married for almost 25 years to a woman I love very deeply. My problem is fighting,I hate it to the point I fear it and I know that there is no relationship in the world that there won't be fighting but honestly I avoid it by giving in even if I don't agree with her just to avoid the confrontation. When we fight I feel like I can never get a point across there for fighting is just a mute point to me because the more I try to get my point across the more I'm misunderstood and the worse the fight gets.
When we get along I feel like I can take on the world, I look at her and I feel all warm and connected to her. When she is mad I feel worthless, depressed, and confused by how I feel. I am either high as a kite or 6 feet under, there is no in between. Help.