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Old 10-29-18, 09:33 AM   #11
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Not really that big let’s just say I know how to manipulate this person (in a good way)
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Old 10-29-18, 09:40 AM   #12
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Bad phrasing I meant to say I know how their mind works
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Old 10-29-18, 09:45 AM   #13
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As long it’s something good.. Again, good luck 🙂
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Old 10-29-18, 07:18 PM   #14
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Is souless the only person reading this thread
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Old 10-29-18, 11:09 PM   #15
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No, I am.
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Old 10-30-18, 10:02 PM   #16
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Well the night in question was a fucking nightmare but i managed to so what i planned as I said im pretty confident that I know what this person will do but im not gonna wait too long im not repeating the mistake of the past
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Old 10-31-18, 03:44 PM   #17
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"so how do I finish the job and win her heart"

You only "win" if she allows it. In other words It's not entirely up to you what happens. You can plan and scheme from now until doomsday but but in the end either she sees you in the same light...... or she won't. And you can't make that happen. Either it's there or it isn't. Ask me how I know.

Another thing you need to consider: If she just ended a relationship, starting all over again with anyone might be the last thing on her mind. Especially if the last one could be considered "toxic."
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Old 10-31-18, 05:26 PM   #18
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You said to ask you how you know consider this me doing so

Abd i have considered that thats why im being cautious
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Old 10-31-18, 05:53 PM   #19
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The short version of a very long and ugly story:

A long time ago in a galaxy far far away I met someone I truly thought was "the one" and for a period of time she felt the same way. Fast forward a few years: after all of my efforts to show her how I felt, after years of jumping through hoops to impress upon her that yes she was important, her problems didn't have to just be her problems, and blah blah blah she just tells me out of the blue she "just wasn't feeling it anymore, and maybe never did." Maybe I should have seen it coming, the red flags had been there, but I was completely blindsided.

So, what did I get for all of my troubles? If you guessed anxiety/depression, trust issues, rejection issues and a slight alcohol dependency problem you're absolutely right.

So, my overall point would be to go take that chance. To quote Gretzky, "you always miss the shots you never take." Just understand there's only so much you can do, and sometimes things are best left to happen at their own pace.
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Old 11-03-18, 08:24 AM   #20
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Let it out
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Friendzoned
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