How do you feel about emotional cheating???
I understand everyone's boundaries are different...
I hate hate hate being lied to. I always rather hear the truth no matter how brutal.
Anyways, long story short, my boyfriend and I decided to move out together and he said he had a friend moving at the same time that we could take over her lease. I said that sounds great.
This was back in February, during this time my dad and grandfather were in the hospital with pneumonia and I was helping to take care of my mom. I got a call at my mom's house from another one of my BF's friends and she told me this "friend" of his with an apartment is actually an ex-GF.
Since then I have found out that he went behind my back offering to help her other times. She really messed him up, cheated on him and has been with multiple other friends of his.
He offered to drive her to DR'S appts because she is pregnant with some other guys baby and doesn't drive.
She works at my bank here in town so now I have to drive out of my way to avoid her.
She is actually no threat to me, it is more of a panic and deep humiliation I feel when I see this so-called "friend" now. We ended up moving into a place together (BF and I), but all I do is regret it. I wish I had the strength to be on my own for a change.
Sorry for the rambles... my PC is broken and I am typing on my tiny phone.
I guess my question is has anyone been through something like this and how did you cope?