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Old 01-09-11, 12:41 AM   #1
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"Problems dont just go away, they just rearrange themselves."

You told me that once, remember?

Problems don't just go away.....but I guess I can.



It's not even her that bothers me. It's what she represents. I so badly wanted to be close with someone, and she allowed me, hell even asked me, to show her who I really was. Then once I do she has to bitch at me for it before finally just making me go away. Thanks for confirming what I already suspected about the world of socializing.

I still hate this crap that "you have to love yourself before you can love someone else." Explain the logic of that? There are plenty of people who hate themselves who love others. Let's just be honest and say what we REALLY mean: "If you're always in a bad mood around someone, that'll make that person feel like crap, too." Which leads me to this...

I'm sick of hearing people say they want someone who has a positive attitude. Why, exactly? How much smoke do you need blown up your ass? Sorry, if I'm not "positive" enough for you, but this is me. What's wrong with someone who is "real" for a change? It's bringing you down? Correct me if I'm wrong, but if someone else's temperament is bring YOU down, then this was never about wanting someone who's arbitrairly "positive" or "loving yourself before you love others", this was about you, and your fragile self image and the need you have for someone ELSE to help support it. Welcome to the world of a lonely, depressed person.

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