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Old 01-24-12, 06:26 AM   #1
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Well me and my dad have had a on and off relationship anyway.

But lately shit hit has hit the fan. Me and his side of the family haven't really been close, so one night when he was here I deciced to tell him how I felt.

I said some things about his mother, his back went up and he didn't like it. I didn't say anything nasty, just bascially that his family could of made more effort with me when I was a child. And now as an adult, I don't feel comfortable around them.

After that, I didn't hear from him till about 2 weeks then I phoned him. I asked him if he'd calmed down and got over it? He said no, and that family should stick together and I need to sort my priorities out.

Now I kinda choked, this is coming from a man who has been in and out of my life since I can remember.

I said I would go and sort it out with his mum and put things to bed and move on. He said that was too late to fix things with his mum and family, and that was that. I hung up and didn't bother speaking to him.

A few days later, his niece messaged my saying I'll be an unfit mother and that I should be sucking my "real" familes ass (dads side) .. so obviously my dad has been bitching about what I've said. And now I'm the black sheep.

Anyway, I told them all to fuck off and don't preach to me about morrals and family when your all fucked up yourselfs!

I logged on FB a few days ago to delete my father and in the search came up another profile of his. So I had a look, and on that profile is the women he had an affair with and what ruined his and my mothers relationship.
I just couldn't believe it, he has never admitted to cheating with this women. But I can't believe what he has said to me lately when he's still fucking that women!

WTF.. Is he fucking crazy? I Hate him so much!
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It's funny, If I were with my daughter I would hug her and love her like I've never loved anyone before. I would play with her, take her to the park, watch her smile and listen to whatever she has to say. She would look up to me and would want to be with me, I'd be the coolest dad ever..
The reality is I haven't seen her in 2 years, I can't get a job where she lives, my ex didn't put me on the birth certificate because they don't want me to have anything to do with that baby. They don't send me pictures, or tell me anything about her, and I'm sure they don't tell her about me. I send her gifts for Christmas and birthday, but her upcoming birthday will be different- I'm going to deliver her presents myself. It would be a dream for me to see her, it will be the greatest day of my life... I can't wait..
I would put my daughter before anyone else, family or not. I don't know your whole story but your dad should only focus on you!
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