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Old 07-30-09, 08:06 PM   #1
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i just need your advice... if you have any experience with this sort of things...
well, i'm 18 and never had a girlfriend. i'm feeling like i really need one. i have a lot of other problems, but i think that this is the biggest one... it's like... haunting me... all day long i think about girls, romance.

i feel like i'm on the verge of doing something extraordinary stupid, like, ahhh, don't know, go out and...fuck, i don't know what the fuck i wanna do... just to confess my secret desires to some pretty girl...

but it seems like all the girls are too fucking happy and positive and optimistic wherever i go, they are all like, smile, the sun is shining, party, youre young, bla bla bla... i hate this... i want a girl which is depressed like me and ummm.. i don't know... want to help each other... you know... this kind of stuff...

i'm an asshole.
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Old 07-30-09, 10:37 PM   #2
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ummm well im not sure if a depressed girl might help you.... she might understand you better but are you sure she might help? i mean shes got her own problems and all adding the weight of worrying for a loved on...
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i feel like i'm on the verge of doing something extraordinary stupid, like, ahhh, don't know, go out and...fuck, i don't know what the fuck i wanna do... just to confess my secret desires to some pretty girl...
Do it. I'm not even kidding you. I felt exactly like you when I was younger. And it took me a long time to learn: you will never get anywhere unless you tell the girl where you want to go. Now I'm not saying it's going to work with this girl, or any girl in the near future, but it does work.

Don't go looking for depressed people. Some people need to work on their own problems before they can be in a relationship, and two depressed people feeding off each other will not be a good relationship. I'm not saying don't go out with a girl who is depressed, just don't go looking for one.

On the other hand, you seem to be lacking in confidence in your own ability to attract women. You may want to consider a girl with low self-esteem. She won't be overly demanding and pushy at first, so you can build your own confidence. At the same time having someone pay attention to her and complimenting her would help her with her own confidence issues.

Teenage girls with low self-esteem usually fall into two categories: the shy girls who wear sweatshirts all the time and don't talk to many people and the girls who constantly brag about their sexual exploits and wear barely anything, but don't seem to be able to maintain a relationship. For your own sanity I'd aim for the former, not the latter.
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