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Old 02-26-12, 01:50 PM   #41
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I know you're all right. It's just hard to give up on something that I never thought would fail. Honestly, she's probably not even thinking about it, but trying to convince myself that she is makes it hurt less. I just hope someone walks into my life fast.
Because you are so desperate, she will probably walk right past you.
But hell, shall i just tell you, what you want to hear,maybe throw a pity party.....or give you some sound advice from my heart, one that has been beating for well over forty years.............. get over her, be yourself and seek contentment in your own company.
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Will have to disagree with monkeychild... Sorry mate

But I've been in a similar situation... I fucking loved a girl that didn't feel the same way. It hurts, and it's not a simple case of "get over it".

All I can say is go out... talk to other girls And make friends... GFs will come from those situations and you sound like a good catch

Good luck (I'm sure you don't need it)
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Will have to disagree with monkeychild... Sorry mate

But I've been in a similar situation... I fucking loved a girl that didn't feel the same way. It hurts, and it's not a simple case of "get over it".

All I can say is go out... talk to other girls And make friends... GFs will come from those situations and you sound like a good catch

Good luck (I'm sure you don't need it)
Really MMCH? you loved her even though you never had a relationship with her? Even though she never showed that love to you? Because to me, thats unhealthy infatuation, not love.
So, tell me............if you don't work at getting over it and moving on, what do you do?
And listen, this is a discussion not an attack, i have read enough of your words on here to have respect, and believe me, if i had none, you would know.
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But I've been in a similar situation... I fucking loved a girl that didn't feel the same way. It hurts, and it's not a simple case of "get over it".

All I can say is go out... talk to other girls And make friends... GFs will come from those situations and you sound like a good catch

Good luck (I'm sure you don't need it)

I agree with mmch :)

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Really MMCH? you loved her even though you never had a relationship with her? Even though she never showed that love to you? Because to me, thats unhealthy infatuation, not love.
So, tell me............if you don't work at getting over it and moving on, what do you do?
And listen, this is a discussion not an attack, i have read enough of your words on here to have respect, and believe me, if i had none, you would know.

That is very possible isn't it? (scratches head). One can love and not get love back,doesn't mean it is infatuation. Love,to me, is love! It hardly ever dies(unless the recipient abuses me in some way) and it isn't always reciprocated. Love is love!
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Because you are so desperate, she will probably walk right past you.
But hell, shall i just tell you, what you want to hear,maybe throw a pity party.....or give you some sound advice from my heart, one that has been beating for well over forty years.............. get over her, be yourself and seek contentment in your own company.

This is a discussion right? Hugs to everyone

No one is saying he shouldn't get over it! For me, we have all been there and we know how hard it is. It doesn't make one desperate. Healing takes time especially when one really did care.
I'd still love to know what's wrong with loving before a relationship... Isn't that why you want the relationship in the first place? Or is it a 'date anybody and see what works?' Honestly confused! Not having a go at anyone...
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Well I think we are having our own discussion on 20depressed thread.

I send you all my best wishes. I know you will not have difficulty in mOving on. I know you need some time before you try, but when you do you will find that there is more than one great woman... And they will flop at your feet

When your ready... Go get them :)
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Well I think we are having our own discussion on 20depressed thread.

I send you all my best wishes. I know you will not have difficulty in mOving on. I know you need some time before you try, but when you do you will find that there is more than one great woman... And they will flop at your feet

When your ready... Go get them :)
You are right!


All the best,20depressed...
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You are right!


All the best,20depressed...

Yes you are MMCH, hijack over.........
Good luck 20
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