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Old 11-22-13, 05:02 AM   #1
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I've never been the best with women but lately I've found it impossible to flirt.

For example the other day I went through the steak and shake drive-thru and this pretty blonde girl named Danielle was at the window. I pulled up, paid for my milkshake, and when she was giving me my change I said:

"Hey, Danielle right?"
She leaned out the window with a smile on her face and said "Yeah?"
Then I panicked and didn't know what to say and got all awkward. Oh the look on her face after that...

Could anybody please give a young man some advice on how to talk to women?
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Old 11-22-13, 05:53 AM   #2
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This will sounds absurd but I had a similar problem from ages 8-14, I'm now 18 and can talk calmly to ANY girl as long as she's not got an awful unsociable personality... Can't stand girls that are like that. I just view them as if they're a guy the same as me, just try and eliminate the daunting fact that she's the opposite gender and talk to her as if she's one of your mates. It works a treat, just keep the dirty jokes to a minimum ;) I learned the hard way haha. Best of luck mate.
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try to remember we are people too.. and don't (usually) bite.. :) and don't panic.. just talk about normal stuff untill you are more comfortable maybe.. could have asked her "how you doing/been?" stuff like that.. nice easy stuff....
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Just be yourself and don't make a big deal out of it.
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