I've been doing a lot of thinking lately, and I think I just need to get it down on paper and get other peoples view on this.
I am a woman, 33 years old, and I don't have any long relationships behind me, only a few short ones, and all men. However, I have always fantasizes about women. I have considered myself straight, but very open-minded, and I would not turn down the idea of a woman if one asked me out on a date.
I have never called myself bisexual, partly because... well, I might have a totally screwed up opinion on this (please tell me if I do), but the way I see it... if you are a man, in a relationship with a bisexual woman, it will only be a matter of time before she misses what the other gender has to offer, as it is a sexual thing. With me, it has nothing to do with the sexual bit, meaning I get attracted to personality, not looks, color, gender or whatever. So whoever I end up in a relationship with, I would stay 100% faithful regardless.
I did have a one-night-stand with a very straight woman 12 years ago, it was a spur of the moment totally unplanned thing :)
If someone asks me to mention sexy actors, I can mention more women then I can men. And when it comes to Alyson Hannigan (she plays Willow in Buffy, among other things)... oh yum! She is my fantasy, has been for many years! Not only the way she looks, but the character she plays in "Buffy", her quirky ways, the things she say, the way her mouth moves when she talks *gets all dreamy*
Ok back on track :)
Even though I have been in love with guys, and attracted to them, I get more turned on by the idea of a woman, then a man. And I get more turned on by the idea of two women, then I do with the idea of a woman and a man, or two men for that matter.
Am I bi-curious, or am I bi-sexual, only that I've never had the chance to fully explore it with a woman?